Hannieroo wrote:I don't know. I think I see it akin to the selling off of council housing but I suppose it's not quite the same.
Me? I move where I'm told to when I'm told to. I try not to love or hate where I am. Apart from that I just have a small list of places I will not live. I just take it as it comes, so it's not something I think about much. I just live my days.
I was just surprised because I honestly thought you loved it here and were done traveling. It wasn't a pick, merely a comment.
Selling off council housing (UK), aka Right to Buy was IMHO a good plan. It's a deep and broad topic, but where I started out in London was prime and early RTB territory, and it has changed from a near ghetto, to an extremely desirable place to live. Empower the residents, give them a stake in their community (at up to a 30% discount over market value), and suddenly the whole social dynamic changes from 'I am housed here, by some higher authority', to 'This street is my home, and in part it is what I make of it' etc...
Providing accommodation to people should never have been a part of a councils remit. It was an archaic throwback to WW1, and a perceived and noble obligation to house incomeless war-widows, and their families.
In later years, such responsibility was devolved (along with the council housing stock) to housing associations.
I'm not as clued up on housing here, but AFAIK you never get to own an HDB
property, rather you have a lease on it. In fact wasn't this something that recently just started raising it's head, legislation to allow for statutory lease extensions, since these days the oldest HDB leases are getting down to c60-65 years, at which point they become pretty much unmortgageable?
Yes, to some extent life and direction is not in my hands either. But we make do as best we can. What places are
verboten for you? I drew the line at Riyadh, Moscow, and Rangoon. And yes, we did subsequently get offered one of those...
I enjoy it here. But I have no desire to retire or see out my days here. It's not that nuanced is it?

Don't imagine I don't enjoy it, or like it, it's just I don't wish or expect it to ever 'become home', I expect this applies to 99% of other expats here...