Mexikaner wrote:
but honestly, growing up in my home town, close to Puerto Vallarta, I'd see more and more 'white' US-americans...
(it is quite easy to tell when they're not just tourists)
That's a very popular and well-known resort town amongst Americans. You should know that. It's not typical of a Mexican city, anymore than Cancun is a typical Mexican city.
My point with Mexico, and you helped make it by admitting, is Mexico actually has 100k murders since 2006. Compared to Malaysia, where by listening to Singaporeans you'd think there are similar numbers, but there really isn't anything remotely close by orders of magnitude.
I've visited Mexico, and will continue to do so. I don't feel as if my life is in danger there, but I am definitely more vigilant and would avoid many areas, especially if without a local.