Indian Foreign Talents in Singapore

Hannieroo · Post by **Hannieroo** » Sun, 29 Dec 2013 11:04 pm

You're complaining that his wife isn't being friendly and doesn't want to give you a one on one yoga lesson? And you can't understand how you're sordid 9 months can't compete with family, commitment and vows? Seriously? Quite frankly if the wife knows who you are and how to find you you should probably just be grateful she hasn't battered you.

JR8 · Post by **JR8** » Sun, 29 Dec 2013 11:15 pm

I thought the same. Given the global indignity being wrought n the family, I wouldn't be surprised if she pops over and 'whacks' the OP.

zzm9980 · Post by **zzm9980** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 8:24 am

Beeroclock wrote:Subway for the first date was a key warning sign

IMO the only warning that can be fairly construed from this post is to any Indian men in Singapore to avoid the crazy local girls.

zzm9980 · Post by **zzm9980** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 8:27 am

x9200 wrote:(well, at least on 3 sites)

No idea what sites they're on, but if they're local Singaporean forums you can be assured most people will only latch on to the 'Indian' aspect and it'll be a circle-jerk kumbaya lynch mob.

morenangpinay · Post by **morenangpinay** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 10:33 am

i guess this is appropriate

I suggest you move on.

JR8 · Post by **JR8** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 10:55 am

That sounds like one of Jenny Holzer's 'Truisms' series...

ecureilx · Post by **ecureilx** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 10:55 am

damn I missed a nice weekend reading !!!!

I remember a Brit ex-supplier of ours, who insists he will never pay for sex, as paying for sex = like reading a news paper

I am convinced now he told the girls he only wanted ONS and nothing more.. yah right ..

PS: and I was wondering if OP stereotyped like Papa CJ: NOT all indians are IT experts .. (or Yoga Experts .. )

Steve1960 · Post by **Steve1960** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 11:49 am

All us guys pay for sex in one way or another its just that some of us with wives or girlfriends don't realise it or choose to ignore it

JR8 · Post by **JR8** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 11:56 am

Steve1960 wrote:All us guys pay for sex in one way or another its just that some of us with wives or girlfriends don't realise it or choose to ignore it

Speak for yourself, I am a 'kept man'.

Presumably I have some compensatory factors, but better we don't start a dick-measuring competition eh?

Sort of related, but totally off-topic too:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAgOZAbfnOY
Big Doug's Meaner Wiener

PNGMK · Post by **PNGMK** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 12:02 pm

Hannieroo wrote:You're complaining that his wife isn't being friendly and doesn't want to give you a one on one yoga lesson? And you can't understand how you're sordid 9 months can't compete with family, commitment and vows? Seriously? Quite frankly if the wife knows who you are and how to find you you should probably just be grateful she hasn't battered you.

Hanni has a good point.... citizens of certain countries are far less restrained in their actions than others. I'm sort of surprised your yoga lesson didn't end up with you accidentally being strangled by your yoga pants. Maybe that's why the wife didn't go through with it, she didn't want to swing for the "other woman".

Beeroclock · Post by **Beeroclock** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 12:43 pm

zzm9980 wrote:
Beeroclock wrote:Subway for the first date was a key warning sign
IMO the only warning that can be fairly construed from this post is to any Indian men in Singapore to avoid the crazy local girls.

I agree with you, OP highlighting the race is inappropriate. This behavior can be found everywhere. It's a huge generalization and should be a small detail rather than a key topic of this post. Anything that starts with disclaimer "I'm not racist but ......" is a warning bell.

PNGMK · Post by **PNGMK** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 1:19 pm

OP. I was thinking about this for the last few hours. I was wondering if you have any empathy or comprehension of how utterly hurt the fellows wife must feel? Let's assume everything he has told you about her being bad is either a lie or exaggeration (because it was used to get you into bed).

Do you know how ill this woman must feel? Do you know her stomach must churn when she hears your name or sees your text messages on her husbands phone? Do you know that every time her husband leaves the house she fears he has gone to find you? Do you understand how fearful and hurt and shameful she is? (because she ultimately will feel this is her fault). Do you know that every time she sleeps with her husband now she can't help but think of him screwing you and how ugly sex if to her now?

You really are a piece of work to even try to play happy family with her. You're a despicable human being if you can't understand how awful you are to this woman, a quite innocent person in this whole mess. Let's not even think of how much harm you might be causing your former lovers son.

JR8 · Post by **JR8** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 1:23 pm

Thank heavens for an injection of basic morality.

ecureilx · Post by **ecureilx** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 2:24 pm

PNGMK wrote:... .

+ I would say she is in Self-Denial and believing she did the right thing, by believing the guy's cock and bull stories .. she has to learn she was a culprit here as well..

just my 2 cents ..

proxymoron · Post by **proxymoron** » Mon, 30 Dec 2013 3:40 pm

PNGMK wrote:.....
Do you know how ill this woman must feel?......

+1 to this post.

Especially considering she has to live within the Indian "culture" which often makes woman culpable for marriage failures, no matter what an asshole the guy is. Whole episode she looks like the victim and the only one who will be suffering because of "an Indian".

PS:- OP, this is male stereotype, not really an "indian" stereotype. So please dont think that if you choose another race it would be different.

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