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Maid becomes employer's girlfriend

Postby martincymru » Thu, 11 Jul 2013 1:30 pm

Can someone please do a You Tube sketch on:-

a. A Maid who becomes the/a girlfriend of the Employer or
b. Employer employs his/one of his girlfriend(s) as a Maid

I read in the local paper an hilarious story that the Authorities checked the room where they were staying and observed ladies underwear hanging around and drew certain conclusions ..........

What are the Rules on this?

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Thu, 11 Jul 2013 3:24 pm

It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.

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Re: MAID BECOMES THE EMPLOYER'S GIRLFRIEND

Postby PNGMK » Thu, 11 Jul 2013 3:25 pm

martincymru wrote:Can someone please do a You Tube sketch on:-

a. A Maid who becomes the/a girlfriend of the Employer or
b. Employer employs his/one of his girlfriend(s) as a Maid

I read in the local paper an hilarious story that the Authorities checked the room where they were staying and observed ladies underwear hanging around and drew certain conclusions ..........

What are the Rules on this?


I found this instruction youtube (I'm not the owner).
Deleted by youtube owner request. PM for link
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Postby PNGMK » Thu, 11 Jul 2013 4:02 pm

sundaymorningstaple wrote:It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.


Expat men and divorced (with kids living with them), disabled & older men still can - I have friends in both categories. They're just not allowed to hire the prettier ones ;)

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Re: MAID BECOMES THE EMPLOYER'S GIRLFRIEND

Postby zzm9980 » Fri, 12 Jul 2013 10:09 am

martincymru wrote:Can someone please do a You Tube sketch on:-

a. A Maid who becomes the/a girlfriend of the Employer or
b. Employer employs his/one of his girlfriend(s) as a Maid

I read in the local paper an hilarious story that the Authorities checked the room where they were staying and observed ladies underwear hanging around and drew certain conclusions ..........

What are the Rules on this?


This is extremely common in Hong Kong. I personally know a few people who have done 'B'. They usually meet these girls in bars, and those bars are where the workers congregate in the evening and their off days (yes, it is common in HK for maids to even have evenings off) mostly likely just for this purpose.

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Postby Strong Eagle » Fri, 12 Jul 2013 11:11 am

sundaymorningstaple wrote:It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.


Which is really stupid, if you think about it. So called free capitalist society like Singapore interjects its moral objections into a transaction between male and female that presents benefits to both. Once again, I judge that religious bigotry has managed to intervene.

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 12 Jul 2013 11:57 am

Is it any different than 377A? :-|

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Postby bgd » Fri, 12 Jul 2013 12:03 pm

PNGMK wrote:They're just not allowed to hire the prettier ones ;)


Brilliant. :) Who decides how pretty the girl is? :)

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Postby scarbowl » Sat, 13 Jul 2013 8:08 am

Strong Eagle wrote:
sundaymorningstaple wrote:It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.


Which is really stupid, if you think about it. So called free capitalist society like Singapore interjects its moral objections into a transaction between male and female that presents benefits to both. Once again, I judge that religious bigotry has managed to intervene.
I doubt it is religiously motivated. Most officials are not Christians - as they are the most likely to object. Buddhists, for example would not have a religiously-motivated objection.

I suspect it is banned to as a way to reduce sex trafficking and to eliminate a "back door" way to obtain another residency permit.

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Sat, 13 Jul 2013 8:12 am

^^This.

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Postby nakatago » Sat, 13 Jul 2013 8:22 am

scarbowl wrote:I suspect it is banned to as a way to reduce sex trafficking and to eliminate a "back door" way to obtain another residency permit.


I see what you did there.

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Postby x9200 » Sat, 13 Jul 2013 8:30 am

They have enough bad publicity for the whole FDW system. They don't need ever sensitive sexual abuse issues on top of this. How many local and expat males would just hire such women for some extra kitchen activities willing on the maid's side or not?

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Postby the lynx » Mon, 15 Jul 2013 9:02 am

sundaymorningstaple wrote:It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.


Just to quote an example, I know a bunch of single male expats sharing a pre-war house in Petain Road and they hired a live-in FDW.

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Postby Strong Eagle » Mon, 15 Jul 2013 11:15 am

the lynx wrote:
sundaymorningstaple wrote:It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.


Just to quote an example, I know a bunch of single male expats sharing a pre-war house in Petain Road and they hired a live-in FDW.


And....???? Are they all having her every night?

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Postby the lynx » Mon, 15 Jul 2013 11:17 am

Strong Eagle wrote:
the lynx wrote:
sundaymorningstaple wrote:It's been tried many times over the past 30 years that I'm aware of. But it is extremely hard, if not impossible, today, to get a live in maid if you are a single male.


Just to quote an example, I know a bunch of single male expats sharing a pre-war house in Petain Road and they hired a live-in FDW.


And....???? Are they all having her every night?


Well, "live-in" would mean that they have her every night (or 24 hours for that matter), right?


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