It's a field full of single expat women but perhaps someone will point out a larger contingent.irnbru wrote:So would you reckon most are in the education field?
It's a circle i have absolutely no connection to which might explain things!
+1 - hence the happy hunting ground comment.musicgirl wrote:Well, I can't contest it. When I said that most of my colleagues fit that description, we are all teachers. I agree there is a high turnover but there are a good number that stick around for a few contracts. It really depends on why they came to begin with, but usually many leave because they don't find much in the romance dept. Many will stay if they have a reason to stay.
Interesting insightPrimroseHill wrote:This thread...... no idea what to make out of it. Not because I don't agree or its sexist or racist, its just *she shakes her head*.
Whilst I am a Msian chinese woman and yes, OH is causacian brit/caribbean, we met in university and this is our 25year together. Not stereotyping here, he doesn't carry my handbags (I still do not understand this concept). I don't have to talk just about the latest IT bag or hair extensions either.
Chinese guys that chats up causacian women and being married. There's always that stereotype that causcasion woman are sluttier than chinese women. Well, thats what I have been told for years.
I used to have people/relatives that asked me what is it like to be with a caucausion man. So much freedom. etc etc
Howver, I have been told that causacion men in SG are hot commodity
The "this race/religion/body type/hair color" is sluttier than the other type is so stupid. IME Caucasian women are actually usually conservative with a few frigid/nympho outliers; just like any other race.PrimroseHill wrote:This thread...... no idea what to make out of it. Not because I don't agree or its sexist or racist, its just *she shakes her head*.
Whilst I am a Msian chinese woman and yes, OH is causacian brit/caribbean, we met in university and this is our 25year together. Not stereotyping here, he doesn't carry my handbags (I still do not understand this concept). I don't have to talk just about the latest IT bag or hair extensions either.
Chinese guys that chats up causacian women and being married. There's always that stereotype that causcasion woman are sluttier than chinese women. Well, thats what I have been told for years.
I used to have people/relatives that asked me what is it like to be with a caucausion man. So much freedom. etc etc
Howver, I have been told that causacion men in SG are hot commodity
It does not take a rocket scientist to figure out that for many such cases it's not the race but culture. What you consider neutral in your behaviour may be actively repelling for people of another culture. You are in part your ethical/country culture, whether you like it or not. Personality may help, but cultural issues may just add to everyday problems or completely prevent any dating follow-up. All the rest is just statistics.FOX711 wrote:being an intelligent and logical human being, it sounds very strange that a man dates be because I were "white" or "Asian" rather than I am who I am.
BUT, since ur friend limits herself to CAUCASIAN men, it is not that surprising people she meets are also with wierd kinds of limitation, such as "Asian women first"
I have to disagree. Aussies don't seem to have any trouble getting dates.x9200 wrote:
For example, I really doubt if an average White Western woman would like to date a guy who in a restaurant puts remains of his dinner directly on the table's cover, makes a lot of noise, loudly cleans his nose and throat in public, jumps queues and don't do much around himself at home.
haha, good reply.rajagainstthemachine wrote:^
@X9 your theory has a lot of holes
1.if you ate in a seafood restaurant you put remains of the dinner on the tables cover
2. makes a lot of noise? and you think white men don't?
3. loudly cleans nose and throat in public.. i have seen several men from all races do this too ( its a turn off but not a big let down imo)
4. jumps queues? lol
picture this: long queue to get a concert ticket, guy: hey honey i'm jumping the queue for you. i
girl: i hate you! i'm dumping you like NOW!
5. I can agree with point 5 but then we are taking abou just dating here right? not a serious relationship.
unfortunately none of this really matters.. bad habits are one thing, but personality issues are another.
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