Just walked away from a pretty lucrative contract offer...after 2 yrs of being with the org, and having asked on a number of occasions for child care leave like my sg counterparts, I was granted an offer in the new contract of 3 days, rather than the. 6 given to Singaporeans. Better, but slightly baffling...and the boss seemed not to understand why I felt this was prejudicial treatment. Growing up in the west, I learned that all people, regardless of race, religion, gender, nationality, etc, are equal. When the boss took offense in my use of the term 'prejudice', arguing that they are not this way (trying to guilt trip me)...I said, fine, so if there is equality, why am I only being offered 1/2 the days of a local? The response
I really liked the people there, and the boss was a good guy, but they really don't understand where I am coming from...said that the govt gives these days to Singaporeans and pr's, I then mentioned that my wife works for nus, is a no -Singaporean, and gets the days, as do all of our friends. Again,
Is this typical? I gave them 2 years to get it right, but nobody seems to see inequality based on nation of origin as a problem.