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My marriage
My marriage
My wife was caught for working under social visit in a KTV pub.
Now her case is just over after being hold up for 3 months , Now she's waiting to go back Vietnam (Air-Ticket purchased).
May i know normally, this ban will last for how long?
I new to this, what can i do?
This thing is depressing her so much tat she have no faith in our marriage anymore.
Now her case is just over after being hold up for 3 months , Now she's waiting to go back Vietnam (Air-Ticket purchased).
May i know normally, this ban will last for how long?
I new to this, what can i do?
This thing is depressing her so much tat she have no faith in our marriage anymore.
Please HELP!!!
Re: HELP!! My marriage please.
Have you been behind the idea of her work illegally?Bota206 wrote:My wife was caught for working under social visit in a KTV pub.
Now her case is just over after being hold up for 3 months , Now she's waiting to go back Vietnam (Air-Ticket purchased).
May i know normally, this ban will last for how long?
I new to this, what can i do?
This thing is depressing her so much tat she have no faith in our marriage anymore.

I am afraid it's rather years than months.
Re: HELP!! My marriage please.
No, i know she was working. She love singapore alot. She was working because i was having low income. Now she is caught, her dream of being a singaporean shattered. She has no faith in sinhapore anymore. She say the ban last very long or maybe forever because she was caught woth concrete evidence. We quarrel alot after n she losing faith on our relation too. Pls help.x9200 wrote:Have you been behind the idea of her work illegally?Bota206 wrote:My wife was caught for working under social visit in a KTV pub.
Now her case is just over after being hold up for 3 months , Now she's waiting to go back Vietnam (Air-Ticket purchased).
May i know normally, this ban will last for how long?
I new to this, what can i do?
This thing is depressing her so much tat she have no faith in our marriage anymore.![]()
I am afraid it's rather years than months.
Please HELP!!!
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Working without a valid work pass? Probably a permanent ban. If you are married, you only choice now would be to immigrate to VN.
Here is a prime example of why they still need to import FTs.
Here is a prime example of why they still need to import FTs.
SOME PEOPLE TRY TO TURN BACK THEIR ODOMETERS. NOT ME. I WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW WHY I LOOK THIS WAY. I'VE TRAVELED A LONG WAY, AND SOME OF THE ROADS WEREN'T PAVED. ~ Will Rogers
Maybe that's my only way out. I'm willing to give up sibgapoe For my wife.sundaymorningstaple wrote:Working without a valid work pass? Probably a permanent ban. If you are married, you only choice now would be to immigrate to VN.
Here is a prime example of why they still need to import FTs.
Please HELP!!!
i think you should think about this rationally man. love alone does not conquer all. or at least, the emotions you now think is love.Bota206 wrote:Maybe that's my only way out. I'm willing to give up sibgapoe For my wife.sundaymorningstaple wrote:Working without a valid work pass? Probably a permanent ban. If you are married, you only choice now would be to immigrate to VN.
I don't need a gov that don't help a citizen in need of help. Singapore failed me. I lost all my trust in sg, i planning to leave in 2 years time.taxico wrote:i think you should think about this rationally man. love alone does not conquer all. or at least, the emotions you now think is love.Bota206 wrote:Maybe that's my only way out. I'm willing to give up sibgapoe For my wife.sundaymorningstaple wrote:Working without a valid work pass? Probably a permanent ban. If you are married, you only choice now would be to immigrate to VN.
Please HELP!!!
you and your wife knew before you got married that your marriage does not automatically qualify her for any type of work pass, right?Bota206 wrote:I'm a singaporean, not proud of it. My wife work because i seek help from gov n i was nelected. I giving up on sg.
i'm trying not to judge, but there are lots and lots of other places to work illegally and not get caught, especially since you're a singaporean. not easy money like a KTV place, is what it is, but i'm just sayin...
don't blame the system for neglecting you. off you go then.
Yes, it's hard to avoid coming to that conclusion, isn't it?teck21 wrote:He got suckered. She doesn't have faith in the marriage because he's no longer of any possible perceived use to her.
Bota206, you will know best of all - if this is the situation then your best bet is to cut your losses now. I can't see it working out if you were to go to Vietnam with your wife TBH. Sorry to be blunt, but sometimes it's best to stand back at look at the situation objectively.
Be careful what you wish for
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