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Outraging the modesty of?

Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 8:58 pm

I am an international student studying in Singapore, My case was in this early september. I met a girl in front of my room. She appoached me and ask me something, she could not access her room so I told a joke that she can go in my room and wait for her roomate. But she refused. Then she told me that she need to go to toilet. I suggested her going to Men toilet, she agreed, in the toilet men, I touched her three times. The first time I touched her, let say unintended, I saw no reaction from her so I tried to touch her the second time with the reason that there was a piece of toilet paper sticking on her skirt. She was ashamed and went back to the toilet to check, the when she went out, I tried to touch her the third time, this time, she got angry and went away. After that, 2 days later, she came back with police, they took me to police station, interviewed me and asked me to come back next Monday 1st October. I want to ask that, for my case, what is the worst scenario, will the police interview me again next Monday, If the girl agree to drop the case, what should I do? Will this take a long period of time for my situation to be completed, because this problem affects my studying alot.

I am now just 19 years old, have no criminal record, my birthday is just 3 days before the case happend, I am now 19 years and 15 days old. Is that an advantage for me?
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Postby taxico » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:04 pm

you need an attorney. and try to stop touching strangers.

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Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:17 pm

for this case do you know how much does it cost for lawyer? what could be the fine or sentence for me? my friend told me that I may be expeled from singapore for the rest of my life , thank you for replying

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Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:19 pm

and how about settle this case off court? is this possible?

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Postby offshoreoildude » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:20 pm

You're in a lot of trouble friend. Molestation is viewed seriously here.

You need serious assistance, not help from a forum.

If you don't fight this and succeed, you will be thrown out of your course, jailed and possibly caned and most likely deported at the completion of your course.
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Postby offshoreoildude » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:21 pm

user_001 wrote:and how about settle this case off court? is this possible?


Yes, it's possible to compound such things with an apology and payment to the victim.
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Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:23 pm

actually, today I came back to the police station, they asked my bailer to sign and extended my bail period, how should I fight now? try to persuade the girl to drop the case is okay?

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Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:24 pm

I'm afraid of the bad scenario that the girl did not agree to drop the case, if that happens, what should I do?

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Postby offshoreoildude » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:26 pm

user_001 wrote:actually, today I came back to the police station, they asked my bailer to sign and extended my bail period, how should I fight now? try to persuade the girl to drop the case is okay?


Don't talk to the victim. That's interfering with a witness. Either hire a lawyer or wait until court - in court request that the offense be compounded (you may be offered a chance to compound the offense prior to this by either the investigating officer, the victims lawyer or the prosecutor - not sure which).

This is not legal advice. Seek legal advice from a lawyer.
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Postby offshoreoildude » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:27 pm

user_001 wrote:I'm afraid of the bad scenario that the girl did not agree to drop the case, if that happens, what should I do?


Accept the punishment and learn the lesson I guess. No one here has a crystal ball or magic wand.
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Postby zzm9980 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:33 pm

This is the lamest attempt at a troll post I've ever seen.

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Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 9:34 pm

as I mentioned above, I am now just 19. Not eligible for a court, since I need a guarantor, and I also dont want to go to court, cause It may take me a long period of time, so the only way for me now is Off-court-settlement? Right?
and some of my friend also tell me to pray for a warning from police, may this happen?

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Postby user_001 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:00 pm

anyone can give me advice please :(

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Postby zzm9980 » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:03 pm

You're either trolling, or the biggest idiot on the island (which is saying a lot). Either way, you're not going to find what you need here.

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Postby Mi Amigo » Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:03 pm

user_001 wrote:anyone can give me advice please :(

If this is for real, and not the lame troll wind-up it seems to be, there is little advice we can give you, except that you (with or without your parents' help) need to seek legal advice. There is no magic wand solution, no matter how many times you ask. You need to face up to the consequences of your actions.
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