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by Tony3d » Tue, 24 Jul 2012 4:16 pm
Ok, so I am about to graduate from college and I have been considering moving to another country for a few years or maybe more while I am still young. I just want to expereince something different and not spend my whole life in the same place.
I am a 3d artist, with most of my expereince in building environments for videogames, and according to my research, there is a growing market for 3d artists like myself in Singapore. So it is currently toward the top of my list of countries I am considering.
So, I am 22, and it is really immportant to me that if I end up somewhere, I will be able to find a girlfriend. I am not one to date alot, and I am most definatly not just looking for easy sex, I just don't want to be in a country without any family and be unable to meet girls to hang out with.
So I am wondering if you guys think my chances are any better or worse in Singapore as opposed to other parts of the world. Please be honest, because if it isn't a good fit for me it is best to know before I put any more time into applying for jobs there.
I am 22 years old, I am going to be a college graduate looking for a job in Interactive and Digital Media, so I am not some rich foreigner that is well established.
I figured I might have an advantage if I chose Asia over Europe because I am white with light brown wavy hair and hazel eyes, so in Asia I would be considered different and maybe more exotic, as opposed to the norm if I went to Europe. I am also a bit short by the standards in my country, but would be slightly above average in an Asian country.
I am not one of those people that wants to go to Asia because they have some sort of Asian fetish, I want to go there because it has a growing Interactive Media market. I don't care if I am meeting other foreigners or local girls or Chinese or Malay or whatever, I just want to meet a girl. If I was moving somewhere because I have a particulare preference in girls it would be in South America, not Asia.
I don't have good luck with girls at all where I am from, but I am not bad looking by any means, not incredible, but not bad. I am in good shape and have 6 pack abs unless I ate too much that month... My biggest disadvantage is I am a bit short and girls in this country care a whole lot about that. I also don't fit in very well with the whole social/party scene in this country and have met girls pretty much only through school and work.
I am not a loud or abnoxious person but can be pretty outgoing with people I get a chance to talk to, I struggle with starting random conversations though. I want to actually date a girl and make her happy, not be a pushover and get used, but just a normal healthy relationship. I am not looking for one night stands or anything like that.
I am born and raised in the United States of America, I am from Oklahoma and spent my college years in Arizona if that makes a difference.
But sorry for being long winded, I would really appreciate it if you could tell me how you think the dating scene would be for someone like me in Singapore as opposed to other countries you have expereince with. It is an immportant variable in my decision on what to do after college.
Also, I am a pretty good guitar player, so are there good places for musicians to play small shows in Singapore?
Thanks,
Anthony
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Tony3d on Tue, 24 Jul 2012 4:46 pm, edited 1 time in total.