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Post by offshoreoildude » Tue, 01 Jan 2013 4:00 pm

tan_andrei wrote:I had finally received the Final judgment from court. Based on the final court order, I shall have care & control of my kid (and definitely all the financial support) as well as the ownership of the matrimonial property. It was agreed between me & my ex-spouse when we both sign on the preliminary filing of the divorce. But now other new problems had arisen. Her boyfriend wanted to break-off with her because his wife starts to suspect their relationship. Hence, she is now intending to neglect the court order:

1. My ex-spouse refuses to move out from the matrimonial property. And she expect me to move out from this property which legally under my ownership.
2. My ex-spouse refuses to handover my kid to me and my family members. She doesn’t want to find any job and just full-time taking care of the kid while I must continue paid for her maintenance as well as all the costs to maintain this property.
3. Potentially, she might refuses to sign on the ownership transfer of the matrimonial property while neglect the final judgment.

So while seeking the professional advises from my lawyer, I was struggle with what other action I can do to let her moved out willingly without taking away my son. As I don’t want to go to the extreme and taking legal action to resolve the case. Because I would rather settle it peacefully without mentally hurting my son.
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Post by JR8 » Tue, 01 Jan 2013 8:27 pm

Hey, let's play 'Which personality disorders did your XW have'

100 down, declaring 2. Your turn.

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Post by Sergei82 » Wed, 02 Jan 2013 11:09 pm

Who the f##k is this guy?

Should police be informed?

Is he masturbating while watching those pictures?

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Post by Sergei82 » Wed, 02 Jan 2013 11:33 pm

ok... sorry, for off-top, but what a hell was that? 2nd time during the day I see this... Was that a threat to us? I've never seen anything like this in my life!

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Post by sundaymorningstaple » Wed, 02 Jan 2013 11:51 pm

It's sabaisabai, you remember that jerk from last week? He's registered at least a half dozen times today with a whole slew of nicks and is bombing us with the nasty graphics. x9200 & I have been deleting them as fast as we can find them, but as this guy is an immature arse-sucking jerk, I reckon we'll be in for some more before it's over. I really feel sorry for the sicko, though. It must really be hard, not having any friends. :console:

He was just registering with an M1 addy but he must have realized we've already posted the IP to the police and they are requesting logs from M1 to trace him down, so now the last three he's registered he's been using an anonymous proxy server so we cannot trace him. But I think he better move fast and get out of his flat before they pick him up.
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Post by cheekysquirrel » Wed, 02 Jan 2013 11:52 pm

OMG what a total dick! He should be banned.

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Post by sundaymorningstaple » Wed, 02 Jan 2013 11:56 pm

See, this is the same douchbag. Using the anonymous proxy again.
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Post by Fadhli » Wed, 22 May 2013 11:04 pm

My friend sit down and think again wats did u say until she says that,maybe I'm not married yet but I can give u a advice.first thing first your family comes first no matter wat.second never get into unnecessary conflict that could result divorce:).restart whatever u and her does until both of u felt in love.lastly never ever thing abt divorce cause if u do,u are just being weak inside.l
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Post by Brah » Fri, 24 May 2013 4:31 pm

The Great Fadhli has spoken again....

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