SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS COMING APART:
(1) Boredom
- you just feel bored about the relationship for no specific reason
(2) Fights
- both of you are fighting about the same thing again and again with no hope of resolution
(3) Irreconciliable differences
- you both have difference in values, beliefs, activities and friends and these differences became unbridgeable.
(4) Affairs
- either one of you have affair and this indicate that something is very wrong with your relationship although it also mean inconsiderate, selfish or self-indulgence beahaviour.
(5) Emotional Distance
- you feel that your partner is very far from you and you are unable to relate to him or her and eventually, you rather seek nourishments from other sources eg friends or focus on other activities than communicating to your partner.
If you see the above signs, it is time to try resolve the issues or seek counselling or theraphy before things get out of hand....
By Daphne Rose Kigma (Psychologist/Family Counsellor)