ecureilx wrote:TFNG wrote:BEST ADVICE: Invite people for coffee, or lunch. The more you get someone to invest their time in you, the higher chance you get an interview, name of hiring manager, or a lead on an open position....
Invite HR people of potential employers out for coffee or lunch ?? haha .. you are kidding ..
Let me know when or how that happens ??

Ecureilx,
Last week, Thursday, 11:00, Tanjong Pagar.
To be fair, I didn't meet the HR person for coffee.
I had an interview.
The interviewer was the person I would replace; they will leave the firm next week and so far, I have been the only applicant they have interviewed.
Not bad since I had only contacted the company 5 days earlier.
I had a meeting scheduled with another HR person with another firm for last Thursday also. She rescheduled it because she decided I did not need to meet with her; I should meet directly with the hiring manager. I was told to expect an email on Monday with the date and time for early next week.
Now my only concern is that there could be a conflict with a third company I contacted and that I am waiting to hear from about an interview for early next week.
My approach is based upon human nature. By calling and offering something (coffee/lunch), human nature is to try and reciprocate. Additionally, as you imply, busy people don't want to meet someone they don't know. Because of these conflicting issues, I usually am given the opportunity to pitch myself right there on the phone for the position and if they think I am a match for the position, I am able to email my resume/CV directly to the person I am speaking with.
The outcome of my approach is I am now not a name on a resume/CV in a stack of resumes/CVs, but am a name to a person. An additional benefit is I usually get a return email which includes the person’s email signature. This email signature usually contains their direct phone number (if not, call the company’s main switchboard). I always politely ask if it would be ok to give them a call in a couple of days to follow up. They always say yes.
I have no guarantee that any of these contacts will end in employment. But I can say that having three job possibilities after two weeks of looking is not luck. It is hard work, adapting to the situation, and believing in yourself because nothing in life is free.
Now, how I got the HR staff's names in the first place, that is for another rant.
TFNG