Let me say, good luck.expatforum112 wrote:Guys, am not forcing my GF to do anything. I have always maintained that it is her decision but it is also essential that I told her what my thoughts were .
For the record, we have been together only for a few months and we were still just getting to know phase. I was just curious to know how things work as you may realize all this took me by surprise. Im not some one who just sleeps around and so this came as a big surprise that inspite of using all the protection and having been together for such short time, this might happen.
Nevertheless, thanks for the responses. Frankly did not expect so many in such a short time.
If you end up with a nipper, it's not all bad you know!?! Children aren't bad sometimes, they bring a lot of joy! If she decides to keep the baby, would you do the decent thing and marry her? At the moment would you consider a relationship? I think you need to make her aware of this now also, not just that you don't want the baby, but that you are (or are not) ready for a relationship so if she has the baby then a father may (or may not) be around. Could be the end of your relationship or bring you closer!
Good Luck, it takes a real man to be a father, where as any fool can make a baby.
I believe the saying around these parts is toughen up princess!