Been doing a lot of research lately about a possible relocation for our family to Singapore. I need your help assessing the viability of the proposed package and my associated/suggested budget:
Our family: 2 adults + 2 young children (1 & 4)
The package (negotitation ongoing)
salary $140K
housing: "only" 3 months of service apart, no further help
relocation: moving expense and airfare for the 4 of us.
"Generous" health insurance
The proposed budget (according to current research/various inputs)
Housing: $48K per year or $4000 per month
Schooling/toddler care: $35K including transportation (I know it is cheap compared to other intern' schools, but that's the costs from the school in question)
Tax: $11K
Food: $20.4K or $1700 per month or $55 per day
Utilities $5K or $460 per month
Travel $13K includes $4K for the annual trip back home
Transportation $3.3K mostly public or $280 per month
Health insurance: only $2K as heavily covered by company
Misc $7K
Total $144K (looking to negotiate more than the current $140K, if not succesful will not go...)
Potential upsides:
annual bonus
spouse income
We are not looking for a fancy life style (that's for sure with our budget

Please be free to comment, add you constructive criticism

or experiences from a similar family expatriation?
Thank you in advance,
John.