No string attached relationship

[fubii]

I agree with SE, the only reason I opened this thread was the thought it may be a f***buddy, they are like Kinder surprises, they fulfill all the needs of a man in one package!

Is this a good enough rubbish quote for you?

Anyway, you say you are in "this kind of relationship" this isn't a relatioship, it's an arrangement surely?

it sure is not a relationship at all... you can say its an arrangement that both of us agree to it..

[fubii]

Depends on what you call no strings, most people have been in the situation where they are seeing more than one person at the same time, with the understanding that you or the other person are not in the position to commit to one. I suppose the logic is better to have a bit then nothing at all?

But it always goes pear shape as youmust be a total stone if you dont start having feeling for a regular bed buddy, and that where it all end in tears.

While it sounds great having a load of girlfriends on the go, it is actually very hard work, sometime ending up having two dinners in one night.

When you are all knocked out in bed with Flu you are total stressed out trying to co-ordinate soup visits so there are no clashes of personalities.

you are saying soup visit? thot is a F*buddy.. theres no such thing as soup visit.. no sweet talk or what so ever..
for me, i know his situation whether he have another girl friend or not and he also know my situation here that i might have another man outside and or maybe husband.

lol I think he kinda freak out that i ask him out more often that me going out with my husband... so he think that i will fall in love with him, which totally wrong.... Honey theres no love in this world!!!

[carteki]

Depends on what you call no strings, most people have been in the situation where they are seeing more than one person at the same time, with the understanding that you or the other person are not in the position to commit to one. I suppose the logic is better to have a bit then nothing at all?

But it always goes pear shape as youmust be a total stone if you dont start having feeling for a regular bed buddy, and that where it all end in tears.

While it sounds great having a load of girlfriends on the go, it is actually very hard work, sometime ending up having two dinners in one night.

When you are all knocked out in bed with Flu you are total stressed out trying to co-ordinate soup visits so there are no clashes of personalities.

Is there a story here? Tell us more...

[jdanthony77]

That's what they call it on the 'dating' forums, anyway.

It's fun for a while, but eventually feelings do develop, and that spells the beginning of the end.

The reason for this is simple. It's a situation where those involved are having the time of their lives; all the benefits of a relationship without the downside.

Most people forget this little detail and start thinking, "We're SO good together, we should be in love. I think I'll leave my husband tomorrow"

Having said that, nothing beats some NSA fun!

[QRM]

Watch the movie, "UP IN THE AIR" that sums it up.

[BillyB]

If there are partners or husbands involved, it's not NSA at all. It's called being a complete tw*t.

[JR8]

If there are partners or husbands involved, it's not NSA at all. It's called being a complete tw*t.

^+1

Make that a nihilistic tw*t

[richie303]

If there are partners or husbands involved, it's not NSA at all. It's called being a complete tw*t.

+2

[Strong Eagle]

If there are partners or husbands involved, it's not NSA at all. It's called being a complete tw*t.

+2

Hmmmm... say you are on a biz trip in Melbourne... catch the eye of a honey who wants you... the deed gets done... back to respective spousal units... exactly what is tw*tish here?

[BillyB]

If there are partners or husbands involved, it's not NSA at all. It's called being a complete tw*t.

+2

Hmmmm... say you are on a biz trip in Melbourne... catch the eye of a honey who wants you... the deed gets done... back to respective spousal units... exactly what is tw*tish here?

Depends if you're in an open relationship, Mr Eagle, or where the boundaries have been defined.

[the lynx]

Though I personally do not favour NSA, from female perspective, it is easier to get it done if you don't get personal with that effbuddy. Don't bother finding out his real name, his number, his address etc.

Just do and go. No further interaction, no more complication

[nakatago]

Just do and go.

RRRRRRAWRRRR....

'You come here often?'



#doingitironically

[the lynx]

Though I personally do not favour NSA...

Does that answer your question?

[nakatago]

Though I personally do not favour NSA...

Does that answer your question?

whooosh!

I also do not favor NSA with their spying and covert ops.

[the lynx]

Though I personally do not favour NSA...

Does that answer your question?

whooosh!

I also do not favor NSA with their spying and covert ops.

So do you do NSA then (minus the covert ops)?

Meow~