Funny the thread has gone off track, but .. I always quote .. when somebody comes crying and yells that nobody is bothered about their pain .. my oft quoted answer is .. "your little finger being torn off is a big pain for you, but, too bad, my pimple in my face hurts, because the pimple is IN MY FACE, and I FEEL THE PAIN" ..revhappy wrote: Its just like a applying for a job. There are limited numbers of jobs. The guys who really need the job are more often than not, not qualified for it. The ones that are really good and will get the job easily may just quit the job after 1 year. So would you call the really qualified guy who quit the job is one year as an abuser?
Not sure if anybody's gonna figure that out .. but .. yeah, everybody has the right to ask what they want, needless they really deserve it or not ..