Maid is 22 - can she join us in spore?

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 6:48 am

Nak, Thank you.

Post by **x9200** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 6:55 am

nakatago wrote:
sundaymorningstaple wrote:Only problem is, she'll be 23 before the proceeding are completed and unfortunately as she's already over 21 she cannot be adopted anyway as she's no longer a minor.
Which brings us to the original suggestion: wait for her to turn 23.

You're welcome.

Wait, we still may consider polygamy...

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 8:35 am

If the OP doesn't mind, her husband might be all for it. However, I'm not sure how MUIS or ICA will view it. Course, if the husband has to convert and be circumcised, he might think twice about it.

Post by **nakatago** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 9:57 am

It seems that circumcision is such a pointed (hee, hee) subject to non-Muslims, non-Jews and non-Filipinos (and some other culture which circumcision is normal).

Back home, if you're an uncircumcised male or you're circumcised long after puberty, you'll get taunted by the other kids.

Post by **x9200** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 12:16 pm

A really good maid in Singapore may be worth a circumcision especially that I am not the husband. I believe our local expert ecureilx should be able to shed some light even here

ksl · Post by **ksl** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 1:10 pm

sundaymorningstaple wrote:
ksl wrote: I wonder how many mother in laws visiting on LTVSP are shaking in their boots after reading this thread, for doing the washing up, wet market shopping, cleaning, taking the kids to school
Last time I heard, a Mother in Law is still a family member, albeit on the side of the family most everybody wishes they didn't have to claim.

Family members make no difference, not allowed to work on LTVSP

same difference! So being judgemental is hardly the way for moderation if MOM are surspicious of sponsoring a study permit, they will refuse the permit

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 1:25 pm

ksl, when are you going to learn, two wrongs don't make a right.

ksl · Post by **ksl** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 1:26 pm

sundaymorningstaple wrote:ksl, when are you going to learn, two wrongs don't make a right.

show me one wrong please because I'm confused are you saying she isn't eligible for the chef school if so then maybe i understand! No offence by the way, I just like to give authority the rough sandpaper.

JR8 · Post by **JR8** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 3:34 pm

ksl wrote:Family members make no difference, not allowed to work on LTVSP same difference! So being judgemental is hardly the way for moderation if MOM are surspicious of sponsoring a study permit, they will refuse the permit

What about the people we see here who want to bring in their mother-in-laws to 'take care of the new baby'. Surely that's work, albeit unpaid?

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 4:43 pm

It is also "family". Far as I can tell, a maid isn't really considered "family". I might be wrong though, if MUIS allows the Sir to marry her as well though.

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Fri, 23 Sep 2011 4:44 pm

It is also "family". Far as I can tell, a maid isn't really considered "family". I might be wrong though, if MUIS allows the Sir to marry her as well though.

I know a Malay doctor who will do circumcisions for tips only......

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