Moderators , regulars and especially newbies that seek advise.
Lend me your ears !!
I have been inundated with quick fix answers to newbies that need help especially on NS and PR issues.
For those that posted in the open. received their advises and deleted it after that which makes the thread useless as is of no good to others that faces similar situations. These people should be hang by the tree upside down and let the meanest, hungriest RED ANTs bite their arses till kingdom come.
For those that PM me ( which will remain confidential) after several correspondence and failed to understand the implications of their situation needs to have their heads check by a shrink !! Some just failed to understand and is looking for the magic bullet.Keep on pushing me to give the answers that they wanted.
When they cannot get the answers they are after,they labelled me as rude, selfish, jerk and many unkind words. How delightful to call someone that lends a helping hands those names.
For those newbies, if you need advise, you need to tell us the whole picture.
We are not clairvoyant nor mind reader that can go deep into your minds.
We do not have quick fix answers
We do not approve any illegal means
We do not approve flouting the law
We do not and cannot reveal individual names handling your case
We provide our answers base on past experiences, anecdotal evidence and guidelines that is readily available from the Gahmen.
We will apologise (especially myself) if there is any misinformation.
If you think that spilling your gut in the open is not your cup of tea, PM us and we will go from there but you have to tell us the truth nothing but the truth so help me GOD.
What recieve via PM will remain confidential that you can rest assured. I for one will keep that promise.
Those PMs that I have received were sometimes gut wrenching and very sad but this is life, no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes including myself. So help us to help you.
If you agree to disagree that is your call and only you can make that call
I am venting my frustration here as sometimes the things that people ask from me as though I am McGyver which I am not.
If you have information that differs from us please do share with us. Information needs to be verified not hearsay or rumours as it may affect others in the future.
We are here to help but it must go both ways.
Lastly, the regulars here are volunteers and not a single cent goes to our pocket so please be patient for the replies and have the courtesy to say "thanks" once someone here provide the informations that you are after. Shame on you for not having the courtesy to say "thanks" after all the help we provide.
Thank you for your kind attention
ms
edited: colour & bolding added by moderator