She went to Malaysia 7 times because her sister is married there and her sister-in-law is very rich. They own many business there.
I think you would be much wiser to move to Malaysia with her and live as man and wife for a while, then try to move into Singapore later, at least you will be together, if her in laws have so many businesses it shouldn't be so difficult to find employment either.

I was just reading of a British guy who was taken to the cleaners by a Malaysian transvestite, after he spent over £12000 on visa's to get her in the Country, they had a same sex marriage in UK, but 14 days after getting permission to stay, she left him and went on social welfare NO FEELINGS I guess. Though Elton John even gets a Royal wedding invitation, see how life is changing, god knows what the queen mum is thinking

I mean you gotta laugh right! Many get taken to the cleaners, so it's just fingers crossed in this day and age!