Tanama wrote:My aim is to get my deposit back and as much as I would want him to lose the flat for giving us such a hard time, I want to go to it as the last option.
ok, not sure if I said this before, but your complaint will not make HDB take back the flat - they go through certain things, and the final result is retrieval of the flat ..
and unless he is in his late 50's or 60 .. his chance of getting another apartment evaporates, once he has complaints against him ..
Rather than getting into meet-you-in-person session with the Landlord .. send a registered letter, and give him notice that you must be paid back the deposit, if there is no cause to hold back on the day you depart singapore, not one week later, or one month later ... oh, yes, as I highlighted, if he can find cause, like broken furniture, and messy house, he can deduct a fair share .. and if he needs, he must complete his assessment et al before your departure date .. and if he refuses to respond, take it with small claims court ..
Essentially, follow the process, not just meet for coffee and let him bully you, or let him melt your heart ..
I am willing to bet that the owner most likely is out of $ and is pulling rank to not pay you .. and not in the sense of cheating you .. I may be wrong ..