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Postby JR8 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 3:23 am

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k1w1 wrote:
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Most pale looking expatriates posted to Singapore are men anyway, so there are very few women for Singaporean men to steal. Pale looking women can be very hairy as well, something that is a big turn off for local men.


Well, aren't you a delight.

Let me guess: you joined the forum to make new friends?


Not to say all pale skinned women are hairy but I have noticed many are. I find it hard to date a woman who has hairy chest and arms. And then there is infidelity to contend with as well.

Different strokes for different folks. If you like to bury your face in a chest full of hair, so be it. :)


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Postby Mary Hatch Bailey » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 5:29 am

JR8 wrote:
Mary Hatch Bailey wrote:One more time :? :

Big difference between going out to a public place and being invited over for drinks to a married colleague's home when he has told you up front his wife isn't home. If you say 'yes' it's because you want to be there when the wife is out.

What you have worked out with your wife is your business, karaoke or no karaoke.


A deeper meaning in your sledgehammer one-liners can be a little impenetrable at times.

No need to be quite so condescending.


At times I keep my comments brief so not to obfuscate the meaning. A pitfall here on the forum ~ wasn't trying to be condescending, but clear. Apologies.

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I would say 'no'. Out with a group to a bar after work? Sure.

To his place, just us? No way.

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Postby k1w1 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 5:31 am

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Most pale looking expatriates posted to Singapore are men anyway, so there are very few women for Singaporean men to steal. Pale looking women can be very hairy as well, something that is a big turn off for local men.


Well, aren't you a delight.

Let me guess: you joined the forum to make new friends?


Not to say all pale skinned women are hairy but I have noticed many are. I find it hard to date a woman who has hairy chest and arms. And then there is infidelity to contend with as well.

Different strokes for different folks. If you like to bury your face in a chest full of hair, so be it. :)


Clearly, you and your award-winning personality aren't getting anywhere near women's chests.

The irony in your response really did crack me up. I began to wonder if you were making a joke... Then I read your other posts and realised, nope, you're just a jackass.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Postby JR8 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 5:40 am

Got yer...

thanks MHB
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Re: Expat divorces on the rise in S’pore?

Postby k1w1 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 5:41 am

ex-pat wrote:Well, i did get a indecent proposal from a Western guy ( Aussie). We known each other for 3 years now. He asked me if i fancy going to his place for a a drink as his wifey is traveling for business.
My point here is man does not have to travel to hooked with with some hot chicks, he can do it in his house. And if he dare asking woman to go over and have a chat and drink he can do it anywhere as long as the wife is not looking.


I wouldn't have thought anything of that probably, but it would depend on the situation. Do you know his wife? Does she know he's invited you over? Have you been there before? Do you live nearby - like the same condo or street - so it was just as easy to go there than go to a bar?

Hard to say, from the details you gave, if that was dodgy or not. If you've known him for three years, and he's never made a move, I'd say he was just inviting a mate over for a beer.

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Postby JR8 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 5:42 am

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k1w1 wrote:
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Most pale looking expatriates posted to Singapore are men anyway, so there are very few women for Singaporean men to steal. Pale looking women can be very hairy as well, something that is a big turn off for local men.


Well, aren't you a delight.

Let me guess: you joined the forum to make new friends?


Not to say all pale skinned women are hairy but I have noticed many are. I find it hard to date a woman who has hairy chest and arms. And then there is infidelity to contend with as well.

Different strokes for different folks. If you like to bury your face in a chest full of hair, so be it. :)


Clearly, you and your award-winning personality aren't getting anywhere near women's chests.

The irony in your response really did crack me up. I began to wonder if you were making a joke... Then I read your other posts and realised, nope, you're just a jackass.

:lol: :lol: :lol:


It's been a little quiet this week. Let's hope Breedmon keeps up the entertainment! :D

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Re: Expat divorces on the rise in S’pore?

Postby JR8 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 5:49 am

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ex-pat wrote:Well, i did get a indecent proposal from a Western guy ( Aussie). We known each other for 3 years now. He asked me if i fancy going to his place for a a drink as his wifey is traveling for business.
My point here is man does not have to travel to hooked with with some hot chicks, he can do it in his house. And if he dare asking woman to go over and have a chat and drink he can do it anywhere as long as the wife is not looking.


I wouldn't have thought anything of that probably, but it would depend on the situation. Do you know his wife? Does she know he's invited you over? Have you been there before? Do you live nearby - like the same condo or street - so it was just as easy to go there than go to a bar?

Hard to say, from the details you gave, if that was dodgy or not. If you've known him for three years, and he's never made a move, I'd say he was just inviting a mate over for a beer.



Yeah plus the elephant in the room.... a guys not going to invite a woman over for sex unless he reckons he has a chance of getting it, which of course is a big gamble to make with a friend of three years. In which case, [the situation being as described] why did the guy think he was going to get his end away... i.e. how had she led him to be confident in that belief?

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 6:51 am

Now who woulda thunk! breedmon & sgkenneth are using the same NY server. :cool: Oh, and they're the only ones. Why doesn't that surprise me. So, guys have fun for a little while....... :cool:

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Postby longstebe » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 6:53 am

Lets put it this way, I wouldn't wait 3 years to get a shag off a female work colleague. If I were to ask her back to my place after that long it would purely be for a laugh and more drinks.

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Postby JR8 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 7:15 am

sundaymorningstaple wrote:Now who woulda thunk! breedmon & sgkenneth are using the same NY server. :cool: Oh, and they're the only ones. Why doesn't that surprise me. So, guys have fun for a little while....... :cool:


Oh you mean, two posters who turn up as newbies on day #1, and start laying into everybody in precisely the same manner and language are somehow connected? :lol:

Now you say their New York ip is the same? Jeez, can anyone suggest what their shtick might be?

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Postby JR8 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 7:48 am

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 10:56 am

:o :-k :devil:

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Postby Plavt » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 3:44 pm

Women with hairy chests!? :shock: Kiwi have you been over-doing it on the anabolic steroids again!? :lol: :P :devil:
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Postby k1w1 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 4:08 pm

Plavt wrote:Women with hair chests!? :shock: Kiwi have you been over-doing it on the anabolic steroids again!? :lol: :P :devil:


Busted. All for a good cause though. It's rugby world cup year, ya know.

Till then, it's nuthin' a bit o' wax won't fix!

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Postby breedmon » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 6:49 pm

k1w1 wrote:
breedmon wrote:
k1w1 wrote:
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Most pale looking expatriates posted to Singapore are men anyway, so there are very few women for Singaporean men to steal. Pale looking women can be very hairy as well, something that is a big turn off for local men.


Well, aren't you a delight.

Let me guess: you joined the forum to make new friends?


Not to say all pale skinned women are hairy but I have noticed many are. I find it hard to date a woman who has hairy chest and arms. And then there is infidelity to contend with as well.

Different strokes for different folks. If you like to bury your face in a chest full of hair, so be it. :)


Clearly, you and your award-winning personality aren't getting anywhere near women's chests.

The irony in your response really did crack me up. I began to wonder if you were making a joke... Then I read your other posts and realised, nope, you're just a jackass.

:lol: :lol: :lol:


Go ahead and be rude. How typical. It still does not change the fact that you and your women are Chewbaccas. :)


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