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Postby yulaoshi » Sun, 13 Feb 2011 6:50 pm

Yes, try to make more friend and find something to do, like further study, travel, enjoy your work, don't think too much ... Good luck : )

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Postby Joeyfishcat » Mon, 14 Feb 2011 6:14 pm

I'm afraid I take offence at any guy who says women are full of themselves. :mad:
In fact, the opposite is more often true. Just take a look at the GUYS' criteria... They have to be aesthetically pleasing with a fit body... oh and intelligence, wit, etc comes second place as a bonus.
Never mind you lot thinking most women want a man with plenty of money and a big cock... It seems you want all of us to be slim, sexy sirens begging for bedroom activity 24/7! :x
This shallowness is enough to make any man-wanting woman feel she has a lot to live up to. Most women don't know their own worth and guys who spout stuff like that just make our low self-esteem even lower.
In order to make an omelette, you have to break a few eggs :D

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Postby Joeyfishcat » Mon, 14 Feb 2011 8:54 pm

Hmmmmm.... Interesting point!
In order to make an omelette, you have to break a few eggs :D

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Postby carlsum1986 » Tue, 15 Feb 2011 9:34 am

Joeyfishcat wrote:I'm afraid I take offence at any guy who says women are full of themselves. :mad:
In fact, the opposite is more often true. Just take a look at the GUYS' criteria... They have to be aesthetically pleasing with a fit body... oh and intelligence, wit, etc comes second place as a bonus.
Never mind you lot thinking most women want a man with plenty of money and a big cock... It seems you want all of us to be slim, sexy sirens begging for bedroom activity 24/7! :x
This shallowness is enough to make any man-wanting woman feel she has a lot to live up to. Most women don't know their own worth and guys who spout stuff like that just make our low self-esteem even lower.


hahahaha nice

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haha

Postby krd671 » Tue, 15 Feb 2011 10:18 pm

i agre3 with stinky fish..i never denied that most men are jerks..all i said is accept us for who we are.. we know we suck.(hard ;-).but women must realize that they can be bitches too :) just dont think you are mother teresa with tits..and btw..evolution has designed us to love good bodies and i dont make any apologies for it..just like it has designed women to look for big strong successful men..just dont expect nice/kind/goodlooking to be part of the package because for most men success doesnt come by flashing their pretty smiles and wearing stilettos..

homer

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Postby jwong71 » Thu, 17 Feb 2011 10:42 pm

krd671 wrote:i agre3 with stinky fish..i never denied that most men are jerks..all i said is accept us for who we are.. we know we suck.(hard ;-).but women must realize that they can be bitches too :) just dont think you are mother teresa with tits..and btw..evolution has designed us to love good bodies and i dont make any apologies for it..just like it has designed women to look for big strong successful men..just dont expect nice/kind/goodlooking to be part of the package because for most men success doesnt come by flashing their pretty smiles and wearing stilettos..

homer

gals tend to compared,everytime they met some new guys over a party or a club. from cars,to houses,or to vertu phones.. list goes on

nice gals nowadays= rare!

some of the successful or rich guys are moving over to foreign talents. thai, malaysian, indo-chinese etc.

*they knows wealth today cant satisfy sing-gals tomorrow.

guess its the type of crowd these sing-gals are mingle with,to inject such mentality and competition into them

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Postby jwong71 » Thu, 17 Feb 2011 10:51 pm

Joeyfishcat wrote:I'm afraid I take offence at any guy who says women are full of themselves. :mad:
In fact, the opposite is more often true. Just take a look at the GUYS' criteria... They have to be aesthetically pleasing with a fit body... oh and intelligence, wit, etc comes second place as a bonus.
Never mind you lot thinking most women want a man with plenty of money and a big cock... It seems you want all of us to be slim, sexy sirens begging for bedroom activity 24/7! :x
This shallowness is enough to make any man-wanting woman feel she has a lot to live up to. Most women don't know their own worth and guys who spout stuff like that just make our low self-esteem even lower.

i guess u are the type who party alot,and mixed in the wrong places. therefore chances of meeting such guys is high.

decent,down to earth guys are only found everywhere, but off the clubs.

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Postby nakatago » Thu, 17 Feb 2011 11:30 pm

jwong71 wrote:decent,down to earth guys are only found everywhere, but off the clubs.


probably working as software engineers and are too timid to talk to beautiful women :roll:

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Postby Sendoh123 » Fri, 18 Feb 2011 6:12 am

jwong71 wrote:
Joeyfishcat wrote:I'm afraid I take offence at any guy who says women are full of themselves. :mad:
In fact, the opposite is more often true. Just take a look at the GUYS' criteria... They have to be aesthetically pleasing with a fit body... oh and intelligence, wit, etc comes second place as a bonus.
Never mind you lot thinking most women want a man with plenty of money and a big cock... It seems you want all of us to be slim, sexy sirens begging for bedroom activity 24/7! :x
This shallowness is enough to make any man-wanting woman feel she has a lot to live up to. Most women don't know their own worth and guys who spout stuff like that just make our low self-esteem even lower.

i guess u are the type who party alot,and mixed in the wrong places. therefore chances of meeting such guys is high.

decent,down to earth guys are only found everywhere, but off the clubs.


totally agreed with bro jwong71.
decent and down to earth guy are every where.
But on the other hand, decent gal are every where too...

Therefore, it is all up to fate for a couple to meet up and get in love.
Please treasure relationship...:)

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Postby Joeyfishcat » Sat, 19 Feb 2011 4:34 pm

I wish people could 'treasure relationships' but from what I've seen, many relationships in Singapore are more like transactions! ...And I'm not just referring to OT either...
In order to make an omelette, you have to break a few eggs :D

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Postby estherc81 » Fri, 25 Feb 2011 10:07 am

bump 8-)
i'm turning 30 in August, never had a relationship, dated/dating around, but extremely happy as i am. I have 2 best friends (one gay and one straight girl married), vicariously experienced other gf's relationships and figure i dont need the drama and i dont feel like giving up anything right now.

Dont feel emo..everyone's time will come. Better to be single & happy and miserable & attached to Mr Wrong.

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Postby nakatago » Fri, 25 Feb 2011 10:17 am

Joeyfishcat wrote:I wish people could 'treasure relationships' but from what I've seen, many relationships in Singapore are more like transactions! ...And I'm not just referring to OT either...


Frankly, with the number of expats--on an expat package or not--in Singapore, a lot of things are transient. Regardless of your thoughts on the matter, a lot of people don't feel like staying in Singapore for "long." They don't feel like settling in Singapore for various reasons. Those who come here without significant others already will normally feel something for people they meet. They get into relationships but when they finally like time's up for them in Singapore, it would only be normal to have some people decide not to go with the other to a different country. Rinse, repeat.

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 25 Feb 2011 10:36 am

Joeyfishcat wrote:I wish people could 'treasure relationships' but from what I've seen, many relationships in Singapore are more like transactions! ...And I'm not just referring to OT either...


What do you expect in a country famous for the following normal marriage proposal:

"I think it's time we apply for an HDB flat." :o

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 25 Feb 2011 10:38 am

nakatago wrote: Rinse, repeat.


:shock: I though Alpha123456Seirra was back! :lol:


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