longstebe wrote:So ladies, what your saying is every Asian women with a older gentleman is wrong and you will judge them.
No one is saying that and race has nothing to do with it.
I've seen university students in Thailand having relationships with older Asian gentleman, is this sleazy?
Could be, who knows?
I also know of plenty of middle aged women who would love to meet a westerner of any age, is this sleazy?
Could be. How long is a piece of (g) string ?
Whats to say the young Asian lady is very smart and taking full advantage of there older husband, is this ok?
Again ~ who knows. You've tried to set up scenarios that would refute an argument that was never made
You lot amaze me, IMHO your are mostly jealous and won't admit to it.
Jealous of an 18 (cough, cough) year old prostitute who has to support a family of fat-ass ne-er-do-wells in {
fill in home country here} by giving blow jobs to some sweaty old man in a back room of a two-bit beer hall?
Another thing, if you where to walk around the mall with your 20yr old son, I can judge you and think it's sleazy.
Except that he's 18, he looks exactly like me so no one wouldn't think he was my son, he's is not dressed like a slut and more importantly ~ you're right. I can't control what other people think.
My point is you don't know peoples situations so what gives you the right to judge.
Some actions are so heinous, they shout down a person's 'situation'. If I see someone kick a dog, I really don't care about the situation. When I see a maid stooped by a dining table without a chair and spoon-feeding an eight year old while the family fills their gobs ~ that's all the information I need. What gives me the right to judge is the rising gorge I feel when I see someone being taken advantage of, that's what gives me and others the right. Not all judgement is bad. History is full of revered people who have stepped up when outraged and made judgements to change the world for the better: Abraham Lincoln, Susan B. Anthony, Rosa Parks, Mother Theresa, Nellie Bly, Oskar Schindler.
Those are all forms of exploitation if she is treated unfairly and motivated by ignorance or grinding poverty.
It is the human condition to want to do the right thing, to aspire to learn to respect one's self.