Hey, you are aware that i'm using SMS text....it's common in other forums so i really didn't know it's so offending here. Guess i don't fit in this forum at all....i'm trying to clarify yet it seemed like i'm the kiasu parent that needs to face the reprimanding.
Anyway, this will be my last posting. It's not uplifting at all and by the way, i'm having a bad flu so really not in the mood to re-read carefully what i'd typed. So sorry if the bad English upsets you.
Just want to emphasize that we should treat each other's view with respect and to speak to each other with kind words. Just like Mad Scientist said the good values we instill in our kids are important and it applies to us all. Life is short, we need not stress our children and we also should not stress each other too.