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How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
No smart alec-y rejoinders please.
I am a well-read, well-traveled conversationalist with a good sense of humor. Interested in meeting with women of a certain age and stature in life -- above 35, I suppose, to avoid the "chirpy" types, and focus on those who are fairly comfortable and confident about themselves.
Intent is to share an effortless time of togetherness, companionship, pursuing interests together. I do know for a fact that several women in their 40s or above would love to have such no-strings attached opportunities to meet with men if only decent men presented themselves. Most women of my type lament the lack of such men in Singapore, and not to be conceited, but I can see why.
Sadly, all the websites I check for such career possibilities have either some silly gay theme or something sleazy attached to it. I'm not interested in that. At all.
Any ideas on how to find my target audience -- and I mean beyond the cobwebbed pages of Craigslist and such, which in Singapore seem to attract losers anyway?
To some people, this may sound unappetizing even without the erogenous element, and I'm cool with that. It's a simple transaction -- something of value is exchanged (time, companionship) so expectation of being remunerated for it does not carry unnecessary moral ball and chain in my mind.
Thanks for any pointers.
I am a well-read, well-traveled conversationalist with a good sense of humor. Interested in meeting with women of a certain age and stature in life -- above 35, I suppose, to avoid the "chirpy" types, and focus on those who are fairly comfortable and confident about themselves.
Intent is to share an effortless time of togetherness, companionship, pursuing interests together. I do know for a fact that several women in their 40s or above would love to have such no-strings attached opportunities to meet with men if only decent men presented themselves. Most women of my type lament the lack of such men in Singapore, and not to be conceited, but I can see why.
Sadly, all the websites I check for such career possibilities have either some silly gay theme or something sleazy attached to it. I'm not interested in that. At all.
Any ideas on how to find my target audience -- and I mean beyond the cobwebbed pages of Craigslist and such, which in Singapore seem to attract losers anyway?
To some people, this may sound unappetizing even without the erogenous element, and I'm cool with that. It's a simple transaction -- something of value is exchanged (time, companionship) so expectation of being remunerated for it does not carry unnecessary moral ball and chain in my mind.
Thanks for any pointers.
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Re: How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
Why did you post this here. You should have posted this in the Events, Gatherings, Making Friends Sectionjp900 wrote:No smart alec-y rejoinders please.
I am a well-read, well-traveled conversationalist with a good sense of humor. Interested in meeting with women of a certain age and stature in life -- above 35, I suppose, to avoid the "chirpy" types, and focus on those who are fairly comfortable and confident about themselves.
Intent is to share an effortless time of togetherness, companionship, pursuing interests together. I do know for a fact that several women in their 40s or above would love to have such no-strings attached opportunities to meet with men if only decent men presented themselves. Most women of my type lament the lack of such men in Singapore, and not to be conceited, but I can see why.
Sadly, all the websites I check for such career possibilities have either some silly gay theme or something sleazy attached to it. I'm not interested in that. At all.
Any ideas on how to find my target audience -- and I mean beyond the cobwebbed pages of Craigslist and such, which in Singapore seem to attract losers anyway?
To some people, this may sound unappetizing even without the erogenous element, and I'm cool with that. It's a simple transaction -- something of value is exchanged (time, companionship) so expectation of being remunerated for it does not carry unnecessary moral ball and chain in my mind.
Thanks for any pointers.

Why don't you make things happen for yourself by doing something different in the market if you have done your research and believe there is a real demand for this type of service?
You state you are well read and well travelled so have belief in yourself and your offering; why not take a calculated punt on doing some low key advertising and networking?
Unfortunately you have to overcome the stigma of sleaze ridden industry but you never know, you might have a niche service on your hands in a no space at all.
It's certainly a challenge and not really something you could just simply pick up the phone and cold call to pitch. Well, you could but you might face a restraining order or a beating from some frustrated wife's husband!!
Good luck in your pursuit though!!
You state you are well read and well travelled so have belief in yourself and your offering; why not take a calculated punt on doing some low key advertising and networking?
Unfortunately you have to overcome the stigma of sleaze ridden industry but you never know, you might have a niche service on your hands in a no space at all.
It's certainly a challenge and not really something you could just simply pick up the phone and cold call to pitch. Well, you could but you might face a restraining order or a beating from some frustrated wife's husband!!
Good luck in your pursuit though!!
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My guess is that he is doing that here on the forum, you would be surprised just how many bored lonely expat wives there are, plus all the visiting business women that travel to Singapore on a regular basis, and need a chaperone or a sparring partner don't underestimate this character, he's coolYou state you are well read and well travelled so have belief in yourself and your offering; why not take a calculated punt on doing some low key advertising and networking?


He had no intentions of doing that, he waits for the women to PM himIt's certainly a challenge and not really something you could just simply pick up the phone and cold call to pitch


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Re: How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
jp900 wrote:No smart alec-y rejoinders please.
I am a well-read, well-traveled conversationalist with a good sense of humor. Interested in meeting with women of a certain age and stature in life -- above 35, I suppose, to avoid the "chirpy" types, and focus on those who are fairly comfortable and confident about themselves.
Intent is to share an effortless time of togetherness, companionship, pursuing interests together. I do know for a fact that several women in their 40s or above would love to have such no-strings attached opportunities to meet with men if only decent men presented themselves. Most women of my type lament the lack of such men in Singapore, and not to be conceited, but I can see why.
Sadly, all the websites I check for such career possibilities have either some silly gay theme or something sleazy attached to it. I'm not interested in that. At all.
Any ideas on how to find my target audience -- and I mean beyond the cobwebbed pages of Craigslist and such, which in Singapore seem to attract losers anyway?
To some people, this may sound unappetizing even without the erogenous element, and I'm cool with that. It's a simple transaction -- something of value is exchanged (time, companionship) so expectation of being remunerated for it does not carry unnecessary moral ball and chain in my mind.
Thanks for any pointers.
If you are white, i think it wont be much of a problem ... lots of sg girls want to be seen with a western boyfriend. Go to some clubs and hang around, sooner or later you will find one willing to pay ....
Re: How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
Huh? Singaporean girls would PAY to be with a white bloke?victorplusone wrote:
If you are white, i think it wont be much of a problem ... lots of sg girls want to be seen with a western boyfriend. Go to some clubs and hang around, sooner or later you will find one willing to pay ....
noone's that desperate, are they?
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Re: How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
Splatted wrote:Huh? Singaporean girls would PAY to be with a white bloke?victorplusone wrote:
If you are white, i think it wont be much of a problem ... lots of sg girls want to be seen with a western boyfriend. Go to some clubs and hang around, sooner or later you will find one willing to pay ....
noone's that desperate, are they?
The market is of course small, but it happens ... i know of one such case.
You need to target the right market ... look for highly-educated, (either local or overseas grad) single, corporate career-women type, late 20's to mid 40's crowd. Alot of these girls cant find local boyfriends because they are not willing to date someond of a lower social class, and are getting increasingly desperate about their looks, dating prospects etc. If you are a good-looking white guy, i think some of them wont mind paying for you to attend an important date , for example going to a good friend's wedding so they can show off to their girlfriends.
Give it a shot, u might even find a rich woman to marry some day


Re: How to be a decent male escort in Singapore?
Doubt this would happen.victorplusone wrote: If you are a good-looking white guy, i think some of them wont mind paying for you to attend an important date , for example going to a good friend's wedding so they can show off to their girlfriends.
Give it a shot, u might even find a rich woman to marry some day![]()
How does a person maintain this lie, week after week?
You would risk being the laughing stock, as it's easy to get caught out by those that know you best.
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He'd defo have to carry a medical checkup card from the Ministry of Health with monthly chops, just like the rest of the whores in Geylang & OT.
SOME PEOPLE TRY TO TURN BACK THEIR ODOMETERS. NOT ME. I WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW WHY I LOOK THIS WAY. I'VE TRAVELED A LONG WAY, AND SOME OF THE ROADS WEREN'T PAVED. ~ Will Rogers
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