Thank you all for all your replies.
I'm working on this project since jan/feb when I first started to discuss with my company about working in Singapore.
I have read all papers, went line by line trough forms for DP, LTSP, EP.
I know all the details of what is required.
Like every case, mine is special too.
We come from an European country with few people (~100) living/working in Singapore.
Like in many other countries,in my country also, the common-law marriage status is a bit fuzzy. it is 100% accurate. Personally, I think because the church still has a lot of influence in politics.
My embassy in Singapore, is missing a high-councilor/ambassador and it is unknown when one will be assigned.
My company will also support the application.
I also called MOM and discussed with them on the topic. And the replies I got where encouraging.
I have an appointment with them Monday, .. and will collect more information on the sport.
So ... a big puzzle, of which I know major details, ... but i'm missing pieces.
Based on what I could read on this forum, cases are different, and not all got resolved in the same way.
taking it literally, MOM says:
* A copy of the EP holder's Statutory Declaration on his/her relationship with the applicant;
- I have such a declaration
given in our home-country, a legalized one, and also a legal translation. Clearly states:
"long term relationship known as common-law marriage"
- in some cases, mom may approved the LTSVP only with such a declaration. (but only in
some cases

)
- My second questions (Q2) is trying to clarify this.
Q2:
Has anyone applied for an LTSVP with a confirmation letter given in the home-country, and not a confirmation letter by the embassy ?
Was the LTSVP approved ?
* A letter from the EP holder's embassy confirming the status of his/her common-law marriage to the applicant in their country;
- as explaining, first my embassy is missing the one person that could sing such a document, and there is no temporary replacement. Talking with another employee from the embassy, I was told that the embassy has never given such a document and most probably will never give. (one of those time when the embassy does not care too much). As there is no ambassador of my country in Singapore, I was told to call also the embassy in KL, and ask for details also there.
- Calling my embassy in KL, I was told that this is the first time they hear about such a request. The ambassador said it is willing to give such a document, but it would like to see an example of such a document given by another embassy.
- This is where my other 3 questions came out:
Q1:
Can anyone provide an example of such a document ?
Dow does it look like ?
What exactly it is written in it ?
(please sent me a private message if you can provide copy of such a document, I'm only looking for an example. I can provide you my email address, or come to meet you in person. Thanks!)
Q3:
Would MOM approve a LTSVP with a confirmation letter given by an embassy but from another country (ex: Malaysia), and not by the embassy from Singapore ?
Q4:
Can we apply for her LTSVP before she arrives in Singapore ?
With the above explained, ... I would appreciate your replies to any of the 4 questions above, or similar personal example.
Thank you all in advance!