Try to get my name spelt right, Plavt; don't know why but it's case sensitive if you want me to regard you on equal terms, for whatever's worth.


Try to get my name spelt right, Plavt; don't know why but it's case sensitive if you want me to regard you on equal terms, for whatever's worth.
Ahh...you reduced it to 3 letters, not being petty; 1-1 is the only way to cope in the cyber jungle. Vaucluse actually was the only gentleman who spelt my name right. SMS, lucky for him, is not a fixed sign; perhaps he realised he had to shed some weight, literary speaking. lol. But I reckon he's got a bit of responsibility. Well, I had had a fresh girl's bash. Who on earth is Bafana ? You know, I don't hold grudges and can't remember names online unless- there was some degree of meaningful communication. It's ok for some...anyway, what do you call men who 'bitch'?Plavt wrote:Try to get my name spelt right, Plavt; don't know why but it's case sensitive if you want me to regard you on equal terms, for whatever's worth.Don't say your going to start bitching just because I abbreviated your name to the first four letters, Vaucluse did the same thing and you didn't complain then! As for being regarded 'on equal terms' there is more than one here who doesn't, evident by the remarks made by people on various other sites, not to mention the jibes by sms and Bafana.
Is this forum run like a business or a platform for the unique opportunity for expats and S'poreans?sundaymorningstaple wrote:The problem is, with his type, the green shoot more often than not, is a strangler fig, that when given enough time, will eventually kill it's host. Read that as our regulars getting frazzled at the garbage in all the threads, so move on the better, smoother pastures. Without the regulars, the site dies.anneteoh wrote: I'd say let a green shoot grow into a big tree. lol
You don't have to go down that path. Actually, I find there're a lot more I could do in Singapore than in rural France or historic London, err, without having to pay for everything - tennis, swimming but you might have to be a PR.raden888 wrote:He/She will be back. It must be boring to be stuck in place surrounded by HDB flats
I checked into iproperty - it looks quite reasonable. I was tempted to contact them for rent; esp when my family visit SG, for myself, I have lots of relatives' homes to crash out. There's also the Telesales - is that your real estate portal ? It seems slightly more expensive than iproperty -your site perhaps? I was speculating on buying a place in SG but the current rate of exchange is a hinder and house prices are rising in SG, aren't they, at the moment?sundaymorningstaple wrote:Primarily, it is a form of advertisement for the real estate portal who is our host. As their primary goal is the provision of upper end housing (the kinds that expats used to always go for in the days of monster packages) having a expatriate oriented site is good to draw eyeballs to the rest of the site - real estate - which all need. Unfortunately, somebody like our recently departed academic who was again deleted just an hour or so ago in a new thinly disguised nick, 'geerangisback', could well drive the primary target away to other boards here in the region.
Anne I applaud your love thy enemy approach, but also I think you have to keep a couple of things in mind. Trolls arrive to cause trouble, insult people, leave mayhem and distraction etc. In a way it is like a teenager probing a family household's OB markers to see what he can do. You saw that clearly with Gerrang, he ratcheted it up until he repeatedly broke too many OB's.anneteoh wrote:You found it 'fun' reading a stark ranting driven? The poor guy might 've been on the verge of psychological collapse - or will be if his outside world's so harsh. He might be a teen freak or an aspiring student, even an old general. Now no one'll ever know.sundaymorningstaple wrote:Yeah, Plavt is always spoiling my fun!![]()
I would have liked to find out who he is and give him a bit of friendly diagnosis. SMS, I thought you'd been a truer liberal with allowing free speech - at least for a while, a few days, to calm him down.
The upshot - can Plavt allow geerang back to see how he'll ring changes?
JRB thanks for coming in here. I have no expereince of trolls -and I have no perception how a forum like this functions but SMS had just explained. I know though, that there's a healthy and creative exchange of thinking and discussions.JR8 wrote:Anne I applaud your love thy enemy approach, but also I think you have to keep a couple of things in mind. Trolls arrive to cause trouble, insult people, leave mayhem and distraction etc. In a way it is like a teenager probing a family household's OB markers to see what he can do. You saw that clearly with Gerrang, he ratcheted it up until he repeatedly broke too many OB's.anneteoh wrote:You found it 'fun' reading a stark ranting driven? The poor guy might 've been on the verge of psychological collapse - or will be if his outside world's so harsh. He might be a teen freak or an aspiring student, even an old general. Now no one'll ever know.sundaymorningstaple wrote:Yeah, Plavt is always spoiling my fun!![]()
I would have liked to find out who he is and give him a bit of friendly diagnosis. SMS, I thought you'd been a truer liberal with allowing free speech - at least for a while, a few days, to calm him down.
The upshot - can Plavt allow geerang back to see how he'll ring changes?
Geerang doesn't want 'friendliness' or a chance; he got warned, or alerted to the rules several times: did he take note, no. In fact he just got got even more offensive to other posters trying to get a rise out of them. I expect he is much more surprised than you that he was able to continue in the same vein for so long.
I have no doubt he is relishing reading this follow up chat, trolls demand attention, and love the perceived celebrity of being discussed. No doubt he will be back, and he will do the same all over again. So I see little need to 'forgive' a serial offender (refer Dostoevsky, and the proposition of the criminal 'moth around the candle').
My suggestion would be: The rules are clear, if you repeatedly break them despite multiple warnings, bam you're gone.
JR8 wrote:
Alas we are packing up our home today so I have no time to write a considered reply.
Packing up our home? Arrgghhh...How I hate moving..Good Luck ,don't forget the importance stuffs like wifey.![]()
A difficulty is that I have been on forums for years (over 15), and feel right at home where ever I visit.
Wow..I wonder if I can last that long on forums or would I fizzle out...Time will tell
Hi JRBJR8 wrote:Hi Anne,
Kind words, and interesting views. Alas we are packing up our home today so I have no time to write a considered reply.
You are right, when I turned up here I did rub SMS up the wrong way. A difficulty is that I have been on forums for years (over 15), and feel right at home where ever I visit. Newbies are sort of expected to be shy and diminuative at least for a while after they sign-up to a new forum. I can see how my 'confidence' sent up a troll-watch flag or two
I'm sure, as the net and forums are evolving all the time. If things were the same as when I started out on Usenet (a sort of global forum, with countless thousands of individual sub-boards which was 100% text based (no colour, HTML, graphics)), I think I'd have lost interest too!raden888 wrote:JR8 wrote:
Alas we are packing up our home today so I have no time to write a considered reply.
Packing up our home? Arrgghhh...How I hate moving..Good Luck ,don't forget the importance stuffs like wifey.![]()
A difficulty is that I have been on forums for years (over 15), and feel right at home where ever I visit.
Wow..I wonder if I can last that long on forums or would I fizzle out...Time will tell
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