
hope i can find it here

i moved to Singapore in Nov 2008 and as it happens sometimes in life by January 2009 a Singaporean lady was pregnant with my child. Shocked at first I denied being the father but as the months went on i grew accustomed to the idea of being a father, which i never wanted to be before...
I am not married to the woman and have no plans to be it one day. Currently i am on a EntrePass in Singapore with my own little company (no expat package, I'm afraid). I know this puts me into a weak position when it comes to custodial things in Singapore.
However, the boy was born in late august and since then it has been a constant struggle to be able to see him. She only accepts marriage as a possible way forward and says that without marriage i would rather harm the boy then do him good when she allows me to see him. She is divorced with two kids of her own.
It got now to the point where it makes no sense to discuss it with her anymore as she will never agree to a compromise. E.g. not getting married, but doing the best for the child.
My questions to the forum are:
- where can i turn to for advice without cost involved?
- does anybody know what the rights of a foreigner are in Singapore in such cases?
- has anybody experienced something similar and could give me some info on how to proceed to secure my visiting rights as well as my duties...
Thanks a bunch for any advice
PS. I would like to highlight again that i don't just want to secure my rights... in contrary i want to do the best for the child and fulfill my duties as a father