I need you advice kind people! I know I might be overreacting on this, but please hear me out and give your opinions:
I am on DP and have been working in a local company for a year, with a Letter of Consent. Two weeks ago, my husband got a proposal from his Singaporean employer to go to Qatar for a 6 months visit to the clients site. Since I have been planing to quit my job anyways, I dropped my employee my resignation letter, and while talking after the fact, I did tell her of my plans to travel with my husband as his companion to Qatar. I did not state that as reason of my departure in my resignation letter.
Now my employer is insisting I fill the IR21 form and state in it that I am planing to leave Singapore for Qatar. I feel this is highly unnecessary, because my husband will still be employed in SG, and I will be keeping my DP. For me it will be just like going for a prolonged holiday. I do not intend to work in Qatar.
But the boss is insisting and almost threatening me to sign the form with "Destination -> Qatar". What to do? It's not like I even have a date of departure or ticket to Qatar... I might even not go at all! Who knows at this point what will happen... I deeply regret mentioning about going to Qatar, now I feel it is being played against me and the IR21 form is to be used almost to frame me into resigning from my DP....
Please share your opinions! I am very stressed about this!