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by junta421 » Fri, 30 Oct 2009 8:32 pm
Hello all,
I m coming to singapore in january2010. I am black asian 33yrs lived and worked for last 10 yrs in europe ( Germany, switzerland , netherlands). Now I got a permanent position in singapore. Obviously being single I would like to find a woman for love or may be more.
Is there any possibility in singapore to get a girl friend? Obviously race. color does not matter for me
How difficult would it be to find a girl friend in singapore for Asians ?
good wishes
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by Superglide » Fri, 30 Oct 2009 8:38 pm
junta421 wrote: find a woman for love or may be more.
Interesting.
More?
If only we could pull out our brain and use only our eyes.
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by durain » Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:23 pm
if a singaporean guy is in your home country, will he get laid?
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by Strong Eagle » Sat, 31 Oct 2009 7:56 am
Superglide wrote:junta421 wrote: find a woman for love or may be more.
Interesting.
More?
You know... that marriage thingy!!
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by junta421 » Sun, 01 Nov 2009 8:47 pm
Hey durain,
Dont write crap.. I m not here to find women to get laid.... Obviously ur mind is one way traffic thinking about getting laid with women. If thats what women are all about then go to thailand for 10 euro u will get laid,,,
I m old enough to respect a woman and as I already wrote I will look for a woman not to get laid but more ..love n marriage.
Next time I hope u will apply your common sense before writing some crap ,
Best wishes,,,
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by x9200 » Sun, 01 Nov 2009 9:17 pm
junta421 wrote:How difficult would it be to find a girl friend in singapore for Asians ?
Talking about crap...I guess your common sense was just doing good when you asked this question or perhaps Asian minority in Europe just has this overwhelming impression that Singapore girls want to and actually can date non-Asians only?
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by jpatokal » Sun, 01 Nov 2009 11:46 pm
junta421 wrote:Is there any possibility in singapore to get a girl friend? Obviously race. color does not matter for me

I'm not really sure what kind of answer you're expecting here. Interracial relationships are mildly unusual in Singapore and not exactly encouraged, but they're certainly tolerated. Yes, there are ladies in Singapore who will refuse to date you because of the color of skin; there are also ladies in Singapore who don't care, and even a few who will actively seek you out.
Out of curiosity, what do you mean by "black Asian" though? Of mixed African/Indian descent?
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by Vaucluse » Mon, 02 Nov 2009 11:44 am
I was wondering what a black Asian is as well. PNGer?
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by junta421 » Mon, 02 Nov 2009 4:05 pm
Hey X9200
U got it wrong again. I never told I am looking for a singaporean girl. Well I will look for a girl in singapore and for me doesn't matter whether she is asian, european, african or american..
For your info I m still asian so the question of singaporeans dating nonasians do not apply in my case.
Regarding my color I m srilankan tamil and obviously my skin color is dark like africans. Thats why I used the word black asian
Hopefully everything is clear now.
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by Superglide » Mon, 02 Nov 2009 6:35 pm
Strong Eagle wrote:Superglide wrote:junta421 wrote: find a woman for love or may be more.
Interesting.
More?
You know... that marriage thingy!!
Darn...
How stupid of me...

If only we could pull out our brain and use only our eyes.
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by jpatokal » Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:19 am
junta421 wrote:For your info I m still asian so the question of singaporeans dating nonasians do not apply in my case.
There is no "Asian" category in Singapore. The four official races are Chinese, Malay, Indian and Other, and like it or not, you'll be lumped into "Indian". As Indians make up around 5-6% of Singapore's population, the vast majority of them Tamil at that, you'll find plenty of kindred spirits here. Your dating opportunities outside this little societally enforced box will be limited, but not non-existent. Enjoy the hunt

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by Strong Eagle » Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:21 am
junta421 wrote:Regarding my color I m srilankan tamil and obviously my skin color is dark like africans. Thats why I used the word black asian
I just hope you don't look like Vaucluse.
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by Vaucluse » Tue, 03 Nov 2009 3:43 pm
Strong Eagle wrote:junta421 wrote:Regarding my color I m srilankan tamil and obviously my skin color is dark like africans. Thats why I used the word black asian
I just hope you don't look like Vaucluse.
Hey! I think I look cute! My daughters love me!
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by junta421 » Tue, 03 Nov 2009 3:57 pm
hey Vaucluse,
Absolutely u look as good as anybody else. By the way as far as I know most women dont look into your face..Obviously u need to be smart. I have seen many hot chicks with ugly boy friends...
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by sundaymorningstaple » Tue, 03 Nov 2009 4:06 pm
Looks have nothing to do with it. Beauty come directly proportional to the size of his bank account.

SOME PEOPLE TRY TO TURN BACK THEIR ODOMETERS. NOT ME. I WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW WHY I LOOK THIS WAY. I'VE TRAVELED A LONG WAY, AND SOME OF THE ROADS WEREN'T PAVED. ~ Will Rogers
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