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How do you mend...

Post by nona_nona » Sat, 10 Oct 2009 9:24 pm

a brokenheart? :roll:

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Post by econoMIC » Sat, 10 Oct 2009 9:30 pm

Not at all... you get used to it and move on. After a while you forget about the pain.
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Post by nakatago » Sat, 10 Oct 2009 11:47 pm

You let go and move on. Immediately, whenever possible.

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Post by durain » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 7:09 am

there's more fish in the pond...

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Post by aargon » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 8:38 am

time heals everything.

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Post by blue_thunder » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 10:28 am

Though you may do different things to get over it.

Still it stays somewhere in a corner and pricks you often when you are alone. :(

So just adapt to live with it :P

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Re: How do you mend...

Post by ksl » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 12:50 pm

nona_nona wrote:a brokenheart? :roll:
Find a good lover to comfort you asap! :wink: Then you will realise, that it wasn't broken, just bruised! :lol:

I'm talking from experience too, people tend to want to suffer, rather than face change! Learning to control emotions are far from easy, so flow with them, its great to have a good cry watching a movie or in the arms of a lover or close friend go for !

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Post by nona_nona » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 2:38 pm

blue_thunder wrote:Though you may do different things to get over it.

Still it stays somewhere in a corner and pricks you often when you are alone. :(

So just adapt to live with it :P

Cheers~
it's like he's everywhere, everyone just reminds me of him, how can i get over when he's a family's quite close friend? bugger aye!


Thanks all u guys...

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Post by blue_thunder » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 3:03 pm

nona_nona wrote:
blue_thunder wrote:Though you may do different things to get over it.

Still it stays somewhere in a corner and pricks you often when you are alone. :(

So just adapt to live with it :P

Cheers~
it's like he's everywhere, everyone just reminds me of him, how can i get over when he's a family's quite close friend? bugger aye!


Thanks all u guys...

Try to hang around with your friends, it may take some time . Dont be alone for the next few weeks. Its been 4 yrs for me & still I cannot get over with it. Atleast its not as bad like 4 yrs ago.

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Post by nona_nona » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 3:37 pm

blue_thunder wrote:
Try to hang around with your friends, it may take some time . Dont be alone for the next few weeks. Its been 4 yrs for me & still I cannot get over with it. Atleast its not as bad like 4 yrs ago.

Cheers~
too bad ive been alone these past few weeks! hahah :( but i feel for u, hope ur good! ;-)

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Post by blue_thunder » Sun, 11 Oct 2009 3:57 pm

nona_nona wrote:
blue_thunder wrote:
Try to hang around with your friends, it may take some time . Dont be alone for the next few weeks. Its been 4 yrs for me & still I cannot get over with it. Atleast its not as bad like 4 yrs ago.

Cheers~
too bad ive been alone these past few weeks! hahah :( but i feel for u, hope ur good! ;-)
Thanks.
I am all good , eating/drinking/ travelling and recent addition gaming which keeps me busy during my lonely times.

You can DO IT , as sms and a famous sneaker company says

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Post by Little M » Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:22 pm

Go hang out with your friends or pick up a hobby to pass time.

Whatever you do, DO NOT get into another relationship while u r on a rebound. U could end up hurting yourself and the other party :D

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Post by nona_nona » Mon, 12 Oct 2009 2:06 pm

Little M wrote:Go hang out with your friends or pick up a hobby to pass time.

Whatever you do, DO NOT get into another relationship while u r on a rebound. U could end up hurting yourself and the other party :D
now ur giving me an idea! a rebound! hahahah im just kidding =)

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Post by blue_thunder » Mon, 12 Oct 2009 2:11 pm

nona_nona wrote:
Little M wrote:Go hang out with your friends or pick up a hobby to pass time.

Whatever you do, DO NOT get into another relationship while u r on a rebound. U could end up hurting yourself and the other party :D
now ur giving me an idea! a rebound! hahahah im just kidding =)
A small meetup planned for this friday...you can join if you wish to

http://forum.singaporeexpats.com/ftopic ... highlight=

Cheers~
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Post by nona_nona » Mon, 12 Oct 2009 2:20 pm

blue_thunder wrote:
nona_nona wrote:
Little M wrote:Go hang out with your friends or pick up a hobby to pass time.

Whatever you do, DO NOT get into another relationship while u r on a rebound. U could end up hurting yourself and the other party :D
now ur giving me an idea! a rebound! hahahah im just kidding =)
A small meetup planned for this friday...you can join if you wish to

http://forum.singaporeexpats.com/ftopic ... highlight=

Cheers~

sweet! but where is that same cheap place u guys talking bout? lol
no plans yet id def join if nothings on the way ;-)

cheers!

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