While I see both side to this, would have to admit being one to prefer my space and err on the slightly rude side. That of course with those persons who look like they might be ignorant of basic social graces, and of course not with the aged, invalid pregnant or otherwise needy.
In the same way, if I saw a space and needed it I'd damn well take it, but if I did, would be respectful of whatever environment was there.
I guess what I'm used to from where else I've lived, that if someone did approach you to share your table, more likely than not they would be that much more respecetful of your space. I think that's true in most cases in most places. And in those cases it feels a whole lot better than the alternative.
Having said that, if someone came to my table and started getting on my nerves, they'd soon learn how that might reduce their life expectancy. The aged, etc. excluded of course.
So I would say it probably depends on you and your own personal space quotient, and you're going have to make that call at the time. To always claim more space than you should is not really right now, is it?
sundaymorningstaple wrote:Unfortunately, unless you like eating your lunch at your desk, and you don't have the leisure of taking 90 minutes for lunch, it's sad, but you almost have to do the 'when in Rome' thingy.
Sorry to say, I sit down at a table even if it's "choped". I just thrown the offending tissues away and sit down.
But frankly, I would never stop anybody from joining me at a table. If I wanted peace & quiet I would by my lunch as a take away and eat it elsewhere like a park or back in my office.