hello there hiromice;hiromice wrote: e.g. someone who comes to work first day from the US, how should I behave?
Very helpful, thanks!!!hibri2 wrote:hello there hiromice;hiromice wrote: e.g. someone who comes to work first day from the US, how should I behave?
it seems to me that you are asking about office etiquette and not politics,
anyway, if it is not too late to offer you some advice, it should go a little bit like this:
(i am assuming you are working in a asian majority office)
offices here tend to be quiet, people do not yell or raise their voices
body language and contact is not common here, gesticulating too much is seen as an aggressive stance, while hugging, patting on the shoulder or even shaking hands are not really that common, gender wise it is better to keep more distance between different genders
people tend to make a lot of silences in the middle of a conversation which it could be weird to some...
using bad words (even if it is not openly vulgar) it is really seen as a bad thing, for example i tend to use the word "shit" instead of "stuff" as in "i need to buy some shit tonight" and people at the office (even on informal situations like lunch time) gets irked, i remember a girl who told me not to day "messed up" actually :-\
talking about parties and beer and drinking later is generally frown upon (again even in informal environments)
on the other hand, people are sort of informal when it comes to titles of respect, for example, they generally use the name instead of Mr <first>, including VP's or CEO's they just call them by their name, and they will do the same to you, so dont think they mean disrespect.
people expect you to know nothing about asia or to dislike singapore or asia, they just assume all "ang moh's" are basically eurocentric ignorants or something... and they may answer some question with certain condescending attitude that may annoy you.
it is not very well seen to be very political, social or generally opinionated about stuff, talking about "free tibet", "iraq war" or even simple things as the ukrainian ban on Bruno will make people uncomfortable
sometimes people get annoyed if you dont get their accents be it indian, chinese or whatever, it is kind of rude to say "excuse me? sorry? cant get you man!" more than a few times.
the name card ritual... they dont expect you to know, so do this will get you some points... give and take the cards with two hands, if you take a name card, look at it for some seconds (up to 5 maybe) nodding your head in approval... some people say that comenting about the card font and shit is expected. never put it in your pocket, keep it in front of you (at the table) at all times during a meeting.
people here normally dress up conservative, even in "casual fridays" they dress up conservative.
they like to email to mary, joseph and baby jesus everytime they send an email, be ready to gets emails with a lots of CC's in it, it is good manners to always think about hierarchical echelons when emailing, for example, if you need the IT support guys to help you with the printer, email the guys and CC their manager or something, it shows that you are not bypassing their manager authority (exercise common sense as always).
people never... never ask about their families here, like even if you know that a colleague kid is sick, they dont ask about "hey how is your kid doing?" doing that may get you very positive results or people thinking you are too intrusive, again exercise common sense.
as above, it is common here that they dont say "good morning, etc" to people of lower ranks, like the cleaning staff or security guards... dont be surprised. doing that will make the cleaning staff and sec guys really like you, which is nice (as they are generally a funny bunch).
they are food obsessive here, people sort of expect if you go abroad to bring some token food from where you go, nothing big, candy or a few thingies will do, they prefer that than if you bring them something more meaningful or expensive (like a key ring or stickers or whatever).
ok, hiromice... i am sort of freezing here at where i am hiding so i will go for a smoke, hope this helps and if you need some other tips let me know.
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