If you mean that much to him and you are really uncomfortable with it, then I would think that he should do as you ask. As he says - he's no longer in contact with them, it should be no hardship. At the moment he's given you no reason to trust that what he says is true by defending his right to maintain these friendships.summer wawa wrote:My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and we are going very well and rare have any argument except talking about his ex-girlfriends. What bothering me are he still keeps their email, telephone and added them on face book. If you were I, would you ask him to delete them all? Nevertheless, I do not want to act too controlling. What can I do?
I felt very uncomfortable deep inside my heart. He said he no longer chat/stay in touch with his EXs. If so, why not delete them all? Whenever I bring up this topic and he will say I do not trust him?
I have no clue what's guy's thinking?
Bless your insecure heart. Its not a big deal. I keep all my ex's numbers but it doesnt mean anything. We've had good friendship in the past.summer wawa wrote:My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and we are going very well and rare have any argument except talking about his ex-girlfriends. What bothering me are he still keeps their email, telephone and added them on face book. If you were I, would you ask him to delete them all? Nevertheless, I do not want to act too controlling. What can I do?
I felt very uncomfortable deep inside my heart. He said he no longer chat/stay in touch with his EXs. If so, why not delete them all? Whenever I bring up this topic and he will say I do not trust him?
I have no clue what's guy's thinking?
no they are probably insecure and accepted their friend requests so not to upset them, well thats what i dosmayrhofer wrote:I've never deleted anyone from my Facebook. My exes might still be on my facebook. I should probably check if they have deleted me! haha... the point being that just because your bf has his exes on his facebook doesn't mean he actually ever talks to them or looks at their profile or anything.
When I married my wife expected me to delete all ex girlfriend references , I thought she was very insecure in that she thought they were a real threat. I found it ridiculous but still complied out of respect for her feelings.summer wawa wrote:My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and we are going very well and rare have any argument except talking about his ex-girlfriends. What bothering me are he still keeps their email, telephone and added them on face book. If you were I, would you ask him to delete them all? Nevertheless, I do not want to act too controlling. What can I do?
I felt very uncomfortable deep inside my heart. He said he no longer chat/stay in touch with his EXs. If so, why not delete them all? Whenever I bring up this topic and he will say I do not trust him?
I have no clue what's guy's thinking?
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