Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and views and also those who pm me. It's getting harder to keep up now!! Mind you I've got 2 specials boys to tend to. And foolishly, I've chosen this time to train my non verbal son to use the potty!! I heard preschool there dont accept children still in nappy??!! Hope Green Room @ Turf City will take him! Hopefully he doesnt need nappy by then! Wish me lots of luck!!
As for schooling for my older AS boy. . I'm still keen to put him on the local system despite worrying about the kind of support we'll get from the school but I heard more and more schools now have learning support/special education staff. That's is reassuring to know! But I must stress that my son doesnt require any learning sopport, just wondering how the school staff is going to react when they see my boy putting his face close to the air-con compressor so that he can see the motor/fans working!! Or when he insist that the teacher must write his/her Capital I with 2 short lines on top and bottom of the vertical line...
Other factors play a major role too:
Length of stay : Long term
Returning to UK : Unlikely. Although we still keep our house. Only because not a good time for sale (blame the economy crunch)
Age of child : 6+ still young. Kids are very good at adapting. Although I must say that most AS/ASD kids are very rigid with routine and doesnt like change. I'm counting my blessings as my son doesnt show severe sign of AS. Also I think kids from local school will adapt better in
International School. Transition for kids from international school TO local school will be harder especially when they are older.
Affordability : Like boffenl pointed out $14/month is very economical! I am also counting my blessing because if things not working, hubby can afford private schooling for kids! I'm cheap to maintain too! So money saved will all go to the kids fund..especially the youngest is our major worry!
A local mum said what I've cut and paste is quite extreme. And her kids go to Tao Nan (one of the Top local school I was told) isnt as bad as written! Will try to post her comment when I have the luxury of free time!