And you want to get personal too is it, after reading all your posts, it goes to show what a scum bag you are too.
http://www.singaporeexpats.com/forum/pr ... le&u=72432
Although i will not get into a slagging match with you, because that really doesn't paint a nice picture at all....
You heard two married men say, they where screwing the maid.
I would say you have very little experience of life my dear friend....
I have met quite a few guys, that just love to bullshit other guys, because of their male chauvinist ego's, to prove their own virility maybe, only god knows if it is true or not...
I hope that you do not have to experience divorce, like many people, yes everyone does suffer, and if you experience that your wife, is screwing around, you will only have a few options open to you, think about them before you start being so damned judgemental.
To be judgemental and to accuse others and also myself of being scum, you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself what gives you that right.
If anyone is going to be judge, it will be your creator and with the thoughts you have, I would say he may well deal you a card, which you may or may not deserve.
It took me a good 20 years to build any faith in women at all, and the only way was to except that this unpleasantness goes on all the time, you may well be repulsed by what you hear, you should learn and listen instead of being so judgemental, I'll bet a bottom $ you have got your own skeletons in the closet
Married women are easy, they say yes or no, it is that simple, how you deal with that, and the trust of a woman, is your problem not mine. I have never supported another woman since my divorce and i do not intend to start today, that's why i deliberately married a woman, that did not rely on financial support.
I'm very relieved, that i have nothing to lose, having lost it all, children too, the first time a wife was unfaithful.
You are obviously quite young and possibly from a different culture than ours, but truth is, what it is, and the facts are out their, all you have to do is gather them.
When Adam and Eve was in the garden of eden, who did the enticing?
Your attempt to use the maid as a topic, as backfired in the sense, you show your true colours, a little deceitful, and your a banker too!
So for me, that is the cream on the top, because i have never trusted bankers all my life. Yes i will accept an apology for the personal attack, otherwise I may just use my black magic to put a curse on you
Don't believe all what men say, until they have proved it to you, their male chauvinist hormones and ego's are what many guys like to joke about, it's manly and the right thing to bragg about sex for many guys, and many times it may be true and many times it's also not true.
Although it is true that it does go on here in Asia not just Singapore, and it includes all races too, not just westerners.
It takes two to Tango and do you really believe your wife is going too admit to dancing, how you maintain your own thoughts now becomes the real problem for you, but to soothe you down, chill out, this can be a very difficult topic for those with no experience of life depending on your cultural and religious background also causes strong mental stress on people that cannot handle a subject like you want to discuss..
What you should ask your self is why it happens, who instigates it, the answer is held between one of two people, right and it's best left there.
Because no one knows the reasons! Now sleep well at nights, not that you can now you know EVE started it all, by tempting Adam with the apple!
Women do it because they can do it, Men always want to do it, but cannot do it because its a womans ball park!