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by morenangpinay » Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:55 am
Something worth sharing...
An Interview of Dylan Wilks by Bo Sanchez
Dylan Wilk was born to a poor family. But at
the young age of 20, he
started a computer games company that made him
a millionaire. Soon,
Dylan operated in nine countries and ran his
own TV channel. Then at the age
of 25, Dylan sold his company for multi-million
British pounds. He became
the ninth richest person in the Great Britain
under the age of 30.
But one night, while lying in bed, he was
distressed by a nagging
question that wouldn't let him sleep.
"God, why am I rich?"
He asked if there was a reason for his immense
wealth. Ironically, he
also felt terribly empty inside. This, despite
his ability to have any kind
of pleasure he wanted. He had just bought
himself a brand-new Ferrari and
took one holiday after another. But he was
discovering that pleasure
was like fire... it constantly needed more fuel
to keep it going. And he
realized he would never be happy in the path he
was taking.
One day, a Filipina friend visited him. She
said she felt guilty going
there because her plane fare could have built
two homes for the poor.
That made Dylan pause. How can you build two
houses for that measly
amount? He decided to investigate.
In January 2003, he visited the Philippines.
And for three hours, Gawad
Kalinga (GK) Director Tony Meloto brought Dylan
to different GK
villages for the poor. With his own eyes, he
saw something that would change his
life forever...
Bo: What did you see on that day?
Dylan: I saw hope. More than newly built
houses, I saw transformed
lives. We were entering rather dangerous slums,
breeding ground for thieves
and kidnappers... yet in the middle of that was
an oasis... the Gawad
Kalinga village. I saw people smiling, men
working, children laughing... I've
seen many other projects in South East Asia and
across the world. And I've
never seen anything like GK. This was
different. This really worked!
Bo: So what did you do after your trip?
Dylan: I went back to England. I saw my BMW
parked in the garage and
realized I could build 80 homes with it... and
affect the lives of 600
people. I saw the faces of the children I could
help. I called up Tony
Meloto and told him I was thinking of donating
$100,000 to Gawad
Kalinga and asked him if that was okay...
Bo: What did Tony say?
Dylan: He said, "No, I don't want your money."
Bo: Only Tony can say something like that.
(Laughs.)
Dylan: He said if I was really serious in
working for the poor, I
should go back to the Philippines. So two
months later, I sold my BMW and flew
back to Manila. And in June of that year, I
made a decision to stay in
the Philippines and work for GK for seven more
years.
Bo: Wow.
Dylan: I've decided to invest in the poor of
the Philippines. Not in
stocks or bonds. If I can help in uplifting the
poor of this country, I
can say that I spent my life well.
Bo: I presume your family wasn't too crazy about that
decision.
Dylan: No! They thought I was brainwashed by a
religious cult!
(Laughs.) So my mother came and spied on me. But she
was soon convinced of the
beautiful work we were doing and went back home and
told my sister
about it. And my sister said, "Oh no, they brainwashed
you too!" (Laughs.)
But today, all of them support what I do.
Bo: You've made a decision to give up your wealth for
the Filipino
poor.
Dylan: I don't see it as a sacrifice. When you give
charity out of
pity, you feel pain parting with your money. But when
you give charity
because you love, you don't feel that pain. You only
feel the joy of giving to
someone you love. That's what I feel.
Bo: I hear you built an entire village for GK in
Bulacan.
Dylan: I don't see it as my village. I just provided
the materials.
Architects, engineers, volunteers gave their labor.
Together, we built
63 houses for the poor.
Bo: Amazing. What else do you do?
Dylan: I go around the world telling everyone that
Filipinos are
heroic. Because I work with them every day... the
volunteers of GK.
Bo: What do you see in the Filipino that we take for
granted?
Dylan: You're hardworking. You're always laughing,
always eating,
always singing. Even in your problems. You're loyal.
And honest. Sure, there
are exceptions, but generally, that's been my
experience. And you have the
bayanihan spirit. The pyramids of Egypt are beautiful
but they were
built by slavery. GK villages are more beautiful
because they're made through
the bayanihan spirit of the Filipino. It's especially
this bayanihan
and love of family and community that makes the
Filipino more valuable than
gold. If you take a golden nugget and kick it on the
floor for 400
years, afterwards you won't be able to see much gold,
just mud.
This was what happened to the Filipino... for 400
years you were slaves
and then you suffered under dictatorship and
corruption. This is where
the crab mentality came from; I don't think it's a
natural Filipino quality
because every day I see the gold under the surface of
ordinary
Filipinos. If we wipe away the mud by bringing hope
and being brothers to one
another in bayanihan, the gold will shine through and
the world will see it.
Bo: Let me get personal here. I hear that you don't
only love the
Filipinos, but you've fallen for a particular
Filipina.
Dylan: (Smiles.) Two months ago, I married Anna
Meloto, the eldest
daughter of Tony Meloto. She grew up with the GK work,
so we're totally
one in our mission. And yes, I'll be having Filipino
children. The best
way I can secure a future for my kids is to continue
to help raise this
country from poverty. Instead of building high walls
in an exclusive
subdivision to protect us from thieves and kidnappers,
I will go to the
breeding ground of thieves and kidnappers and help
transform their
lives.
Bo: Thank you for this interview. You don't know how
much you inspired
me.
Dylan: Thank you for being our partner in GK. I read
KERYGMA every
month and I'm happy to see GK stories in every issue.
Bo: It's our immense privilege to tell the world about
it and ask
others to join the miracle.
Dylan: To me, GK isn't just Gawad Kalinga. It is a
part of "God's
Kingdom" in this world. Thank you.