"BU(4) HAO(3) YI(4) SI(4)" is what the rest of the mandarin speaking world uses.kosmopolitan wrote:...I noticed an interesting fact there there is no equivalence of "excuse me" in Mandarin. I noticed this when I was trapped in a crowded elevator in Taiwan, trying to get off. I ended up pushing my way out b4 the doors closed instead.
why should such things have to be learned the hard way? that's not my philosophy, not when many of the problems are not found overseas.kosmopolitan wrote:... I still see the value of campaigns/fines/punishment as a learning tool.
I am of the view that when a country is young and still developing (in the social sense, & certainly also in the economic sense for poor countries still struggling to make ends meet), the easiest and most effective way to quickly improve social behaviour (even in the expense of human rights as hygiene is relativey more crucially important than human rights, tho it is not to mean that human rights aren't impt) is thru campaigns/fines, this is so until the country has a very sound educational and social structure to support the inculcation of good social behaviour (which I mentioned is a very difficult thing to change) through better means, like u implied, thru education.taxico wrote:why should such things have to be learned the hard way? that's not my philosophy,
flushing and littering enforcement still goes on,
no one should ever be co-erced into doing things they don't want to, but this is not the case in singapore... the things that ought to be done are rarely done without the fear of penalties OR just pure indifference.
just so you know, passing "rubbish" legislations (both meanings) cannot be healthy for singapore's software.
Thks for the tip. It didn't occur to me that word which actually literally means "It's rather embarrassing" could be used.taxico wrote:"BU(4) HAO(3) YI(4) SI(4)" is what the rest of the mandarin speaking world uses.
in taiwan, mi(4) nan(2) (aka fujian dialect) is widely accepted so you can also use "pai(2) seh(4)"
I would feel a little annoyed. Of course I do make mistakes once in a while too. I m after all a Singaporean.taxico wrote:so how would you feel when you see them pushing and shoving and keeping quiet?
kosmo, you make a good assumption above but unfortunately, I don't think it is a valid one. Let me explain.....kosmopolitan wrote: I am of the view that when a country is young and still developing (in the social sense, & certainly also in the economic sense for poor countries still struggling to make ends meet), the easiest and most effective way to quickly improve social behaviour (even in the expense of human rights as hygiene is relativey more crucially important than human rights, tho it is not to mean that human rights aren't impt) is thru campaigns/fines, this is so until the country has a very sound educational and social structure to support the inculcation of good social behaviour (which I mentioned is a very difficult thing to change) through better means, like u implied, thru education.
In the case of Singapore which is still developing such social supporting structure for this purpose slowly but surely, like I mentioned it is now noticeable that enforcement has slowly taken a back seat as the education slowly takes over tho there's still a long way to go and it may take generations. I remember donkey years ago, police frequently stand at pedestrain red lights waiting for their preys. I do agree with you that ultimately, the best way to do things is NOT thru enforcement if possible. But this is not completely possible in the case of Singapore yet.
I m surprised that u have access to such historical info in a foreign country which i m certainly not even aware of. Suppose the above is really true, I can't disagree that that prob explains why even backward Malacca/Bali has better social manners (in certain aspects only though) than high tech Singapore. However, still, in my own experience, it is still a fact that I did witness SLIGHT improvement thru the years (i.e. AFTER the kampong era and with the beginning of onslaught of HDB) in many social habits like spitting, littering, giving way while driving (still WAY to go tho but certainly better than Johorians but not Malaccans), service standards etc. But maybe, the sense of community (for various reasons)(of which u tok abt), has really been lost by now. This actually reminds me of the thought that the demographically homogeneous nature of Japan may be an edge and thus may have played a part in maintaining a sense of community and consequently altruistic behaviour.sundaymorningstaple wrote:You are trying to pin the dire lack of social morals to the development of the "country" of Singapore. Here is where your age, or more likely, lack of age shows up. Go talk to the Kong Kong's in their 70's & 80's. You know the ones, they sit around in the kopitiams and in the void decks of HDB flats all day, day in and day out. Ask them their opinions of whether the population has progressed or regressed from a social/moral point of view. Most will tell you it's regressed. ............ Back in the days of the kampongs before the Bukit Ho Swee fires, back when a large portion of the population lived in kampongs, they had a sense of community, those communities were kept clean (even those who had dirt floors), the common areas where also kept clean with all members of the community doing their part to keep it that way.
gillypadi wrote:taxico, I don't believe in most of the things you've highlighted. What other countries are you comparing Singapore too?
1) You said: in singapore, despite having many many well placed rubbish bins (do you see how many??) and cleaners, it is dirtier than what i expect it to be.
I can hardly find any bins now after the 9/11 scare. Have you tried getting rid of your starbucks coffee cup at City Hall Mrt? You can't... You have to take the escalator up back to Starbucks and dump it there. But I have to say, Singapore is a place where I can wear flip flops and after a full day of walking around, not go home with black sooty feet.
A good example is my HDB Block (one one of umpteen in our estate like everywhere else). In the elevator landing area (where the mail boxes are) there is a big bin on each end of the Mailbox wall, and two additional ones nearby. Additionally, right around the corner is a huge recycling bin that holds at least 3 containers. Even with all of those they had to build a pig troth in front of the mail boxes. When I come home from work around 8:30 at night the life landing is full of garbage flyers where they cannot even hit the troth and are too lazy to bend down a pick up their garbage. I been scolded numerous times for commenting. Their reply? That's what we pay the cleaners for. And these are Singaporeans, I know. I've lived in my flat for 10 years and I'm a member of the grassroots resident's committee. Each Bus stop has at least one bin. There's about four at Clementi on each side of the road. But look at the litter all over the bus stops. It's the same of bus stops in & around HDB estates as well. Of course it's de rigueur to blame it on foreigners (even though they are the ones cleaning it up every morning?)
I can't say the same for many parts of Asia and not in Europe too. And I can safely also say, I will not find doggy poo in the middle of the pavement in the city here (won't mention which country)
Live in a HDB flat and you might. As SE says, people who live in landed estates tend to pick it up cause the population density is not a great so it's easy to get fingered.
2) flushing and littering enforcement still goes on, and it's not an ebbing problem singapore. it's a sure sign of a MEMEME/kiasu culture...
I don't think littering is the cause of kiasu-ism. It's just some lazy buggers and the small minority of people who litter altho I do not see many of them doing it on the streets. Where are you hanging out?
Agreed, it's not the cause of kiasu-ism. But it is still part and parcel of the whole social morals thing. It's usually the same people as they only think about themselves and not how their actions impact others - so I tend to agree with taxico on the whole general malaise.
Maybe I am not doing the do in public toilets at the food court or wet markets but I have to say, Singapore toilets need better ventilation! That air freshener reeks and cannot mask the smell of the curry the woman next door had last night!
i'm comparing singapore's public toilets to parts of china, hong kong, korea, japan, new zealand and the US i've been to or lived in. the usual disclaimer applies (not "all").gillypadi wrote:taxico, I don't believe in most of the things you've highlighted. What other countries are you comparing Singapore too?
my last visit to singapore was early this year, and i saw many on street level: in malls, residential areas, parks and on sidewalks. etc. i didn't spend a lot of time taking trains.gillypadi wrote:1) You said: in singapore, despite having many many well placed rubbish bins (do you see how many??) and cleaners, it is dirtier than what i expect it to be.
i have not tried getting rid of a cup inside a train station because i know i won't be able to, and if i have trash, i hang onto it until i leave the station.gillypadi wrote:I can hardly find any bins now after the 9/11 scare. Have you tried getting rid of your starbucks coffee cup at City Hall Mrt? You can't... You have to take the escalator up back to Starbucks and dump it there. But I have to say, Singapore is a place where I can wear flip flops and after a full day of walking around, not go home with black sooty feet.
gillypadi wrote:I can't say the same for many parts of Asia and not in Europe too. And I can safely also say, I will not find doggy poo in the middle of the pavement in the city here (won't mention which country)
"MEMEME/kiasu culture" by way of which i meant being inconsiderate when it comes to flushing and littering in public facilities. people just NOT caring.gillypad2 wrote: taxico said: flushing and littering enforcement still goes on, and it's not an ebbing problem singapore. it's a sure sign of a MEMEME/kiasu culture...
I don't think littering is the cause of kiasu-ism. It's just some lazy buggers and the small minority of people who litter altho I do not see many of them doing it on the streets. Where are you hanging out?
kosmopolitan wrote: why even backward Malacca/Bali has better social manners (in certain aspects only though) than high tech Singapore.
no panties, no bunch. your own previous comment gave me that impression. i hope the escalator wasn't moving too slowly for you.gillypadi wrote:Why and how did you assume that holding on to a cup is *gasp* the most difficult thing I can ever do? All I am trying to say is that you saying bins are all over the place is not true, that's all... no need to get your panties in a bunch.
besides, how am I suppose to hold that empty soy vanilla latte (large no less) and carry all my shopping bags at the same time?
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