I don't want to give the wrong impression, we go there all the time with kids and though we can only eat by the pool side and sports bar. Most kids wouldn't want to be in a formal restaurant anyway.
You have seen the new play room, children library, things have really improved the previous play room was a mold infested garden shed.
I believe kids can go in the main restaurant on weekends but you as the adult have to be appropriately dressed.
As I spend most weekends, in fact most days in shorts and flip flops I am also unable to use most of the club
Lots of clubs have dress codes and big chunks of the premises adults only.
They do have swimming, tennis, golf, dance classes for kids.
Go on a tour and ask where the kids are allowed to go and turn up in shorts and flip flops and see where you cant go.