Found this old thread quite interesting. I'm always thinking of where to send the kids when they are of age, SAS of course being on the list. I was over at Newton Food Court for dinner on a Friday a few weekends ago and a good number of SAS kids were hangin' out, bein' teens, just as they would in America. Most were drinking Tiger big bottles (not a big deal, a lot safer than the 'keg' parties I partook in as a teen), making out (I sure hope my daughter doesn't do this!), and just generally being testosterone-driven teens out to have a good time on a Friday night. One of the teens was completely wasted, walking around the food court in circles, stumbling, and mumbling to his friends. Next thing you know, BAM, the kid slams to the floor face town, piss drunk. His friends leave him there for a few minutes and he manages to recover and walk away. Everyone laughs...
While i'm no strict disciplinarian, these have the potential to reflect badly on the student's family, club, school, and fellow Americans here in Singapore. Is it too old fashioned to want our youth to carry themselves as upstanding citizens, at least in highly public areas? As visitors in a foreign land, we should respect and go out of our way to carry ourselves with a higher standard of dignity than we would back home. Whatever happened to getting drunk in the woods or at the beach, far away from your parents friends and family
Not at the neighborhood food court in front of all the other expat families (children included
), and a local community with an increasingly anti-foreigner sentiment.
Well I guess the one good thing is that people will come to the rescue and help these kids if they take their drinking (or frisky antics) too far...