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by ksl » Wed, 07 Jan 2009 4:00 am
Personally I feel one must really want to do NS to enjoy it, those that have never been members of the boy scouts, girl guides, army cadets, would never really understand how traditional hierarchy structure works. Graduates who have never worked haven't a clue either, discipline and respect is a valuable assets to have, and many academics do not have it, and will never have it. yes it will effect their positions.
I say to my wife quite often, because i cannot tolerate lateness and untidiness, YOUR SACKED! with humour!
National service is very important i believe for character building, and i can remember back in the 60's before i left school, that one kid who had been caught stealing several times, was give the option, to go to the young offenders prison or the military junior leaders. It certainly changed him
National Service is about defence, especially for Singapore, there is hardly any threat at all. And I know the UK are on 24 hr standby for any emergencies around the world Sing being a strategic point of value will not be handed to the commies on a plate, although they may enter the Island across the causeway on bikes.
But I do agree with JP, that there maybe some blockheads around, that are macho and want to grind your son down on a psychological level. it takes tolerance and a kind of indifference to put up these kind of blockheads, but one shouldn't fear them.
Basically there are several reasons for the hard discipline, it's called a short sharp jerk in the right direction, for those, that are bullies, cliche types, ring leaders, and delinquents, everyone is thrown into the same circumstance and a camaraderie is normally adopted to survive, although for those that are bullied and suffer in silence, it's pure hell.
One may well think NS, is not a professional army like the US or British, but it doesn't have to be, because arseholes are every where in every Country, and we either suffer them at work, or out at night, and in the services.
But NS does have an effect on these type of people, that cause trouble, their high spirits and hard boiled heads, can be broken down systematically and rebuilt, to show respect to others, bullies soon understand they cannot beat the system, they may want to beat the sergeant, but will suffer the system if that happens, eventually the hard case is turned into a careworker, a team player.
It is very important not to tolerate bullying, difficult because no one want's to be called a snitch either, but all the blockhead shouting is all about traditional character building, survival training, iniative trg and respect for others is normally taught along with team work.
I was training recruits for the last 3 years of my service, and I can tell you quite honestly, that todays professional army, isn't what it was in the 60's or 70's.
The blockheads used to shout at me too, and i said to one sergeant why do you have to shout all the f--king time at me, he said sonny when you have to put up, with some of the pussy's, that they let in the army today, you will understand, you have two left feet, now get back in bloody line and get it right.
Are you insinuating i'm a pussy sergeant? He would soon get the message, that i was detached and i wasn't concentrating and he could shout as much as he wanted with no effect.
Then afterwards, he explained that, when i got to the rank of sergeant, I would understand the traditions that have to be kept up.
Where our training puts more in hospitals, because the army chooses to put the Scottish or Irish regiments against the British, because of the pure motivational factors of competitiveness.
Occasionally over enthusiasm happens and hand to hand combat is the result, no one wishes to be the losers of course.
It's all changed, human rights, and all that in fact many don't even get fined anymore, myself, well I was on jankers quite often, do the crime you suffer the consequences.
Their is a very large network in Singapore of ex NS my wife's brother - in - law tells me, he still has contact with all his NS mates.
It is without a doubt a positive move for character building, that many people who have never served in a force, wouldn't actually know about. Even the Salvation Army has it's training.
I would personally feel more comfortable, knowing that the guy next to me was trained in many practical skills, from first aid, to fire fighting and casualty evacuation, than a guy with only a degree and not much common sense, or practical experience in life, they become more of a liability in cases of emergencies.
It is true that many long term servicemen cannot adapt to civilian life, mainly due to the lack of respect and jealousy of the civilian, it really pisses civilians off, when an ex serviceman comes into the work place, and works, rather than doss around, or like most workers, do as little as possible.
I've also been the victim of it, and to be honest if a company can't keep me employed, I don't see why i should waste my time with the Company, i have better things to do, than hang around, so Plavt is right, when one has had to work 24 hrs a day, with no overtime. It is difficult to hang around not working, but very easy for civilians, they have done it all their lives and those that work hard, have difficulty respecting dossers.
That is one reason why i would employ a NS man first, before an academic.
It's only when one has to pull together, that the difference shows, but that Character of loyalty to duty and each other is needed from the beginning and if you do not have it, or develop it, while serving, you will very likely never know what it's all about, when it's hard going.
That is to say, maybe in your civillian employment you are asked to pull your weight, and not go home, because you are needed do you have the staying power. many will cringe at the thought of having to do extra work without pay to save the company from going under, where do loyalties lie.
It is a well known fact, that stealing from work can actually bring a company to it's knees, it happend at a car manufacturing unit in the UK, the work force of thousands, where taking car spares home and selling them too.
In the military anyone caught stealing would be severly dealt with, it happens, but in general it would be dealt with first hand, if it continued they would be out, court marshalled and is not tolerated by anyone.
Of course some slip through the net, and a weakness of character, will remain with them for the rest of their lives, they are stamped. Be sure NS is a positive step for any young boy, to become a man with confidence. The rest are still being assessed!