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Not getting along with boyfriend's mum

Postby betsy28 » Mon, 12 Jan 2004 2:05 pm

I have a bad relationship with my boyfriend's mum as she has been thinking that i was the one who broke up my boyfriend's marriage.

His divorce will be finalised soon and will bring me home but i have no confidence in relating to his mum. She's used foul language on me before.... can someone tell me how to face her?

It's not my fault :!: :roll:

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Postby PhantomX » Mon, 12 Jan 2004 9:52 pm

It looks as though she will be someone you will have to relate to for better or for worse..... If it is be for the better then it would mean having to swallow ones pride and being nice to her.Prove her wrong about her ideas about your role in her son's breakup by being nice to her :lol: Press on and don't worry about what she thinks now. She will change her mind soon enough. All the best :lol:

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Postby aPp|e83^ » Tue, 13 Apr 2004 8:25 pm

Oh , what exactly happened? Think u should find some time to explain to her or best u can ask your bf to explain to her. You got to stay with his family members for a period of time also..
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Postby emiko08 » Mon, 12 Dec 2005 2:41 pm

it takes time! good luck!

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Postby Bafana » Mon, 12 Dec 2005 5:51 pm

Dont worry too much.

In this instance its up to your boyfriend to defuse the mother - After all its his mother and he knows her best - She will also respect him more and not like the idea of loosing him if she fails to treat you with respect.

If all else fails get your own place with your boyfirend and live your lives.

Life is too short for worrying about things you can do nothing about. :wink:
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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Mon, 12 Dec 2005 10:17 pm

emiko08 wrote:it takes time! good luck!


They've probably gotten married and divorced by now?!? This thread is already a year and a half old.

emiko08 I'm beginning to think you just like to see your nick in print. :roll:

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Postby emiko08 » Tue, 13 Dec 2005 2:00 am

sundaymorningstaple wrote:They've probably gotten married and divorced by now?!? This thread is already a year and a half old.

emiko08 I'm beginning to think you just like to see your nick in print. :roll:



opps. what does the last sentence mean? sorry. but my English is bad.!! :oops:

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Postby Bafana » Tue, 13 Dec 2005 11:36 am

sundaymorningstaple wrote:
emiko08 wrote:it takes time! good luck!


They've probably gotten married and divorced by now?!? This thread is already a year and a half old.

emiko08 I'm beginning to think you just like to see your nick in print. :roll:


LOL - I didnt check it either.

Still the message is the same for anyone else out there going through the same process. :lol:
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