In US, Ebay started off as an auction site. Right now it has evolved into much more and there are many traditional as well as brick and mortar using it to tout their merchandise. It is no longer an internet garage sale store. And on some forums, I hear people complaining about skyrocketing of fees by ebay making it hard or not worth the while anymore. But of course, Ebay has to do whatever it takes to stay in biz and still end up with a profit margin of their expectation.
sundaymorningstaple wrote:It would cost all of maybe SG$2.50 to send it anywhere in the world (it's not a "book") AND the seller was going to charge anybody who buys it in Singapore the same shipping which shows that the seller's primary intent was to rip off the buyer and avoid paying commissions to eBay. The seller was charging US$20 for shipping even if they lived here in Singapore. Four times the "buy Now" price when common procedure would be to pick it up at a mutually agreeable MRT Station.
You make many assumptions in your posts, very frequently.
As for the auction you pointed out, I am under the impression seller is targeting overseas buyer, hence my previous comment. No seller is under obligation to deliver the goods in person. And they should perhaps charge a personal delivery fee for it then. And are you saying that this seller should do this just so buyer can avoid paying a shipping fee? This is strictly busness and I don't think the seller would want to lose out so much money. A mom helped me purchase my disney show ticket and mailed it to me even though she lives in the next city. A few weeks ago, I paid $3 shipping for concert tickets. I could have picked it up from chinese bookstore close to my house. It is not an activity that I would want to spend my time on. $3 is very reasonable for shipping. I have been charged more for shipping and on top of it, some places like to add a handling fees.
This ebay seller may be minimizing the fees by upping handling charges . At least I know what I am getting myself into as all the cost of doing biz with her/her is stated.
On a side note, coming from SG, I wonder why don't they just provide a total cost to me, instead of quoting me one price for actual goods/ services and then tagging on gazillion fees to it. Have to tip for this and tip for that. And the tips can represent a seizable percentage. And all the extra money they try to extract from you. In both public and private shools, not uncommon to get over 3 fundraising events, per month. I want to see schools and students succeed. But I am not interested in buying more gift wraps, sovenirs, candles, cookie dough and photo taking. When I told preschool director I am not interested in having my daughter's pic taken (another fundraising event), in her most civil, polite and smiley tone of voice, she said "to stay in school, your daughter has to take the pictures". I already have way too many photos of my kids don't need another one. And you know what, I still like her as she is a lovely lady. And I know she acted like that due to budgetary constraint that she has to work with. It is nothering personal. They all know the cost of running a school, why not just include it in the school fees and let us parents know up front. And I don't mind contributing to the school and just writing a lump sum check to them, instead of nickel and diming. This is an education center, not a busness. I rather see them focus their time and energy on the kids.
Another example is car rental. And I am not referring to mandatory like taxes and license. Anyway, why don't they just tag that on and just quote a final price. As a consumer, I am only interested in the total out-of-pocket cost. Rented a car a month ago and kena charged over $20 because they are offering me a different car. I don't understand the logic. I reserved a car from the full size category and that catergory car was offered to me upon pickup. I am not gonna argue over $2o since it represent a small fraction of the actual rental price for our rental of a week. But I still don't understand their reasoning. When they say it is different, maybe they mean it is a different color from the one I selected off their internet site. It could be since I don't remember the color of the car in the photo on their site that I clicked on

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Anyway, reason for my long post. They all try to get the most out of you, be it Singaporeans or Americans when it comes to biz transaction. It is called what the market will bear. Methodology may be different but concept is the same. Maybe one way is more acceptable to you then another? And I understand no one style or culture will please everyone. We all have our likes and dislikes. And I shall stop using childish anti like "I think SMS is essentially anti Singaporean" .
We recently installed Uverse, a ATT cable service. Promising rebates on the contract. And the hoops they make us jump thru to claim it. I nearly gave up.
And the SBC yahoo that overbilled us because of overlap billing when we switch to DSL. Overcharged us monthly (I think for over 5 years). A few thousand dollars involved. Our fault too since hubby did not review the bills. No luck when contacting them. Consumers beware and read your bills. If you make a mistake it is your fault and when they make a mistake it is your fault too, that's the lesson I learn here.
A few months ago, I had home depot installed bifolds in my daughter's closet. Could have gone on craigslist and gotten a contractor for much cheaper. Thought it would be prudent to pay the premium and deal with a reputable biz. At their store, they told me it is best to include all the charges upfront and pay for it and then deduct it later for services we don't use. Big mistake!. They charged $75 to haul away existing door, $65 to climb up a flight of steps (daughter's room on second floor), parking charge (distance subject to their interpretation). Speak about extra charges, these people are the experts

. Since we kept the old door, we naturally requested for a refund. 6 phone calls plus 2 visits later, we eventually got it. All the hoops we have to jumped thru. Really due more to bureacracy and people working different shifts. And to their credit, I don't think they charge us for parking. Or wait a minute, I pulled out my car from my garage so they can park in my spot

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Before that I actually phoned Lowes (they tend to have better service compared to home depot) for them to come measure my door for a fee. The fee could be credited towards installatin service, if you use them. I visited their warehouse to select the door only to be told that my size door has to be custome made from scratch for over $900. That's just for the door itself. Based on my understanding closet doors come in many different sizes and HD has cut their stock to suit our closet. And I think it is unfair that Loewes did did not issue a refund it is due to their own limitation that we could not use their installation service.
When it comes to collecting money from these busnesses, it sure ain't easy. Maybe they hope the consumers will give up.