why do you need others to guide your life? We live and learn by making errors in our lives, it's the best experience you will ever get.
With regards to job, or career...do what you will be happy doing, you do not need money to be happy, if you have no money for food, you must do work that you are not happy with to survive.
This is not new, and i have been in this position maybe 5 or 6 times in my life, even washing dishes, to get by.
You could also take the job you love, and work cleaning tables or any low paid work, to see you through, its all about making your mind up, more than anything. Which is a weakness of many!
Although the only way to build on your strength, is to suffer! The Nike motto of "Just do it" comes to mind. That way you become accountable for your own destiny without blaming others. School was out along time ago, and lets face it, when i look back at career advice, based on education!
It makes me cringe to think how people are full of bullshit, with no experience of life in most cases. Yet at school age, we are all victims of a system, within a system, that give good advice, only to find out it wasn't so good!
Learn to take responibility for your life, is more important than any job offer, and if there is will, there is alway a way, to do what you want.
For example if i wanted to work in securities, I would do it for no pay, and seek an alternative to earn money by washing up in a resaurant, or even a car wash, window cleaning anything, that could help me survive the storm, until i had built my own accounts.
Only you can decide what you really want, and if you want it bad enough, you will suffer a little discomfort to get it.
dreams and pursue a stable & secure career??
Life is a dream, and the bubble can burst anytime, what you need is multi skills, to survive the bubbles bursting, the more work experience the better. So while doing what you like, you should also be learning other skills that interest you in your spare time, at least one night a week.
If you stagnate and go through life with blinkers on, you will suffer big time, when the bubble bursts, be prepared for the ups and downs of life.