well said, as usual rntroad.not.taken wrote: understand pacing
This actually makes a very big difference. I just got back from Canada, where in any restaurant, you get assigned a server. They take all of your orders, serve them all, keep your drinks refilled, bring your bill and pocket the tip. Not only do they know the customer a lot better (and if you're only there for 1-2 hours then they better know you very quickly), but they get the reward (tip) for their service.road.not.taken wrote:They also insist on the buckshot approach rather than assigning a table to someone which means they must always interupt you every time they bring an item to the table to ask 'Who gets the coke?'
Are you a foreigner? Westerner I mean? If you westerner got this kind of treatment, can you imagine how their service towards us Asian?melly wrote:I have some degree of frustration over the quality of customer service in Singapore. Hear me out...
I think the level of courtesy and politeness of the service in Singapore is fantastic. Whenever I enter and leave a shop or restaurant, I would be acknowledged. Singapore has come a long way in this aspect of service. In the old days, you'd likely receive a frown when you leave a shop without a purchase but now you'd get "thank you" as you step out regardless.
BUT... I'm becoming more frustrated by waiters/waitresses not asking questions when they do not understand me. I don't know how many countless times have I received food that is opposite from what I requested. Anytime I ask for a slight modification on the meal, to them it seems to cause a huge complication as they would make their own assumptions. This can easily be solved by asking ME questions if they are not sure. I'm not a monster who is going to eat up anyone who asks me questions. I always try to communicate my requests as clearly as possible but I rather get asked more questions to get my order right than receiving a completely wrong order thus wasting my time.
Additionally, there seems to be lack of initiatives in customer care. For example, I would bring a vegetarian guest to a restaurant. We would advise the wait person clearly foremost of all that my guest is a vegetarian. Then we would make an order, the vegetarian nature of the order would have been confirmed first with the wait person before ordering it. And what do you know...., when the order was presented, we found minced pork.
I would very much like to see this improved. I'm not sure if posting my frustration on this forum will make any difference but I can only hope.
Equally bad?hk203 wrote:Are you a foreigner? Westerner I mean? If you westerner got this kind of treatment, can you imagine how their service towards us Asian?
It the colonial mentality that has unfortunately stuck in some locals.road.not.taken wrote:Especially in light of the fact that they don't get tips, so why be nicer to any one group at all?
did you take it in your stride or perhaps quietly seethe? I throw the "colonial complex" thing out a lot but sometimes, it may be that Westerners are more likely to react to what they perceive as poor service.lovescatsanddogs wrote:It the colonial mentality that has unfortunately stuck in some locals.road.not.taken wrote:Especially in light of the fact that they don't get tips, so why be nicer to any one group at all?
I've waited patiently for my turn while the server was busy with someone else (for a good 10 mins), only to have the server turn to serve the westerner who arrived at the counter 1/2 second before he (the server) was done with the first customer.
I've also been completely ignored when I entered a shop and browsed for some time, and observed other (Asian) customers be treated the same way only to hear a bright 'How may I help you, sir?' the second a westerner entered the shop.
I could go on, but I think you get the picture. It happens a lot.
I don't know if this preference is actually racist, or more like income-ist. I've noticed among my local friends that it's considered normal to judge based on income, perceived wealth and so on - like life is a game where if you have more things, it means you're "better". Kind of explains how people treat maids, McDonalds employees, construction workers etc. It may be that people see a Westerner and figure that he's either a rich tourist or a well-paid expat. If you go into most shops, you can see a difference between how the staff treat someone in business attire, even Asians, compared to someone who looks like a university student.lovescatsanddogs wrote:It the colonial mentality that has unfortunately stuck in some locals.
I'm not one to quietly seethe. If I'mbanana wrote: did you take it in your stride or perhaps quietly seethe? I throw the "colonial complex" thing out a lot but sometimes, it may be that Westerners are more likely to react to what they perceive as poor service.
I suppose that's true. I guess now we have to see how retail staff treat an Asian in business attire vs a Westerner who looks like a university student.Turtle wrote: It may be that people see a Westerner and figure that he's either a rich tourist or a well-paid expat. If you go into most shops, you can see a difference between how the staff treat someone in business attire, even Asians, compared to someone who looks like a university student.
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