Hei bluexob ,bluexob wrote:Des wrote:hi everyone...
Can you give some opinions on having relationship with different race of your own...after that how you going to face through dating period for quite some times. Then thinking of Married with each another down the road?
Edited especially for all of u out there... Let's start our discussion...[b]:Many ThaNks foR the rePlies alsO[/b] :c[/size]ool:
To be frank,i was in that dilenma before..
Been dating with the same guy for years and yet we still have no intention of ending our relationship..Though we face a lot of difficulties along the way...The way our friends's reaction,surrounding,families etc...
Its hard and yet somehow we managed..Taking small steps slowly..Worst both of us from different race and religion..
At first friends thought that we are not serious with each other and that we're merely somekind of close friends..Families strictly forbids..Sometimes i keep asking myself why must my relationship is so complicated from the rest??, i never want it that way,i felt it more like a curse than a blessing,well perhaps there's always a reason behind everything that happened...Patience is the word..but anyway things are much more better now,now that we are more open towards each other and the surrounding as well...
Slowly our friends and families begin to understand our relationship...Now we are thinking of marriage maybe few more years down the road as i still want to obtain my degree first before marriage...In this relationship,the key is to always give in and take..Dont be offended if people pass any unkind remark, important is that u are happy with that person for as long as u want and willingly to make sacrifice...
If u ask me,i would say it aint that easy..
Action speaks louder than words
And good luck
How I wish many expats out there can think and initiate moves like you and sweetheart did. Thumbs up to both of you!
Relationship is never always a smooth sailing one. Love is full of sacrifices as it'll reach the paramount of happiness which results to paradise eventually.