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Can somebody please explain these things!

Postby sundaymorningstaple » Thu, 06 Dec 2007 12:13 am

Originally posted by WORLDPARTYGIRL

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Can somebody please explain these things!

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:00 am Post subject: Can somebody please explain these things! Reply with

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Can somebody please tell me what the Peoples Court is in Singapore and what the WOO FA WOO is not sure if that is the

correct spelling.

My husband has now had his big breakdown- I have posted before and he is going to a clinic and told me he had some

cermony in the peoples court and swore some allegience to Chinese people. I have found out his Tai Tai (his words

works) in a club and WAS raided by the police...and the women have BEEN attacked-WHAT SORT OF WOMEN ARE THESE!

What has he been involved with-any ideas? My story is so long and bizarre.
We are legally separated but I must know what happened to him. Its like he is on drugs but I know he is not.. This

woman has a great hold over him..

Wise people WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE.

Thanks my postings are 1 month back
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:36 am Post subject: Reply with quote
Your post is too vague. Why was the club raided? How many women were in the club and why were they attacked? What is

their crime? How is this relevant to your husband? Why do you need to know about your husbands affairs if you are

legally seperated?

Unless we have the full picture it is hard to comment let alone give advice or are using the forum in an attempt to get

your website more well known?


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:45 am Post subject: Sorry.. Reply with quote
Sorry for being vague as you say but you can be legally separated and still have feelings about the man you have been

married to for 31 years and known him for 33 years.

My website???? what has that to do with it..

My story is well documented in your forum..

Sorry a bit upset as my husband is very ill now, even though he has been very bad to me I still want to know what

happened to him in Singapore.

It is the Waufen Woo i think, sorry if that hits a raw nerve..

Regards The truth is out there and I beleive Singapore knows what is going on!!
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 9:10 am Post subject: Reply with quote
Plavt wrote:
Unless we have the full picture it is hard to comment let alone give advice or are using the forum in an attempt to get

your website more well known?


Maybe you should read her original posts to get a grip. http://www.singaporeexpats.com/forum/ftopic44680.html

I don't see any link or mention of her website in her posts do you? It sounds like she, like most individuals, after

spending that much time with a person, still has lingering feelings which is only natural. Hopefully somebody may have

some answers.
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Does it matter..well..

Postby Worldpartygirl » Fri, 07 Dec 2007 2:06 am

Does it matter if I ever find out what Wu fen Wu is! To me it does because it helps me to come to terms with things.

I am of the belief that the only way to fully get on with your life is understanding what happened to my husband. It is true I am divorcing him but living with somebody for 31 years and being loyal I cannot ignore his pain and anquish-he is now like a brother to me, a bad one at that.

I know his personiality changed and drink has been a major factor but he has done everything and took up with a 27 year Chinese girl who I know is some sort of escort girl or hostess in one of the clubs in Singapore.

Over his 2 year fantasy relationship he gave her lots of money and presents-she had all the answers, money for hospital, money for English lessons, money to stop her working in her job.
She took him to the cleaners and luckily he is in rehab before all our hard earning savings and equity is totally gone.

Why he was taken in I do not know-but at the time one of his contractors, a well known business man in Singapore according to my husband took him to Chinatown and took part in some ceremony to give allegience to this group WU FEN WU not sure if that is the spelling..but my husband is scared of them somehow.

I have a feeling they are linking to this woman somehow. I wonder what he has got himself into too-its like they have something over him..

Perhaps I will never find out..but the strange thing this Scottish man bizarre as it sounds has been taken over by all things Chinese, that I cannot understand.
Its like he is on drugs, I sometimes wonder did they brainwash him, cast a spell. I have seen pictures of this Chinese woman and she appears sometimes in a cat pose..

Now I am havering but anyway dear friends why I like this board is because I always get intelligent replies and humanity shines through.

Greetings from Scotland-no snow yet but all the Xmas lights are up and the shops, well Marks and Spencers, sorry expats, food yum, yum..
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Postby ksl » Fri, 07 Dec 2007 3:24 am

I have just finished reading the whole thread, very sad!

Alcohol is without a doubt a very dangerous drug, very addictive for many and I also get the impression, that maybe you also accompanied him to the pub, before you went back to Scotland, and also feel some sort of guilt, that you wasn't around for him at the time of his weakness.

January 06 was long ago, and I must agree with everyone, that he is being taken to the cleaners.

Alcoholics are very easy to lead, if she is an escort girl, I would also worry about him, the underworld out here, may well be in full control of her and the money taking...It's not at all difficult to get sucked into trouble in the Chinese quarter, he could well be to afraid to do anything about it!

If he is in any trouble and you sense, that he is, I would contact the proper authorities here, through the embassy....the authorities here, do know what goes on, believe me....

Although I don't wish to worry you, it is normal for mainland Chinese to take out loans, to get out of the mainland, if she's working as an escort, she will have a pimp.....that is squeezing her, to extract money from him, possibly with threats, they will harm her, or even you or him, it is likely he wouldn't want to disturb you with his real problems, and the bottle is, is only companion.....you must also remember that alcoholism is a recognised illness in UK now. He does need help, because he cannot help himself!

It's very easy for the family to lose respect for him, they need to try and keep him back in the UK, if he turns up, being a alcoholic and squandering your assets...must be stopped one way or other seek legal advice in Scotland. Get him in Court and maybe he can be forced into rehab, but I think you will have to document the amounts that have been spent from your joint accounts, at the time..

Without having any understanding of the situation, I can only suggest you seek help from your legal advisor, and possibly the Embassy in Singapore, tell them the truth, that you are concerned about his health and the money, and they will look into it, better still to have all your family involved if they will back you up!

It is hard to turn the clock back, however, and it may never work out, but if you want to remain his friend, after so long, I believe you need to do what you can....before you divorce him...Divorce is such a devastating shock, some people are addicted also to having affairs, wife swapping, or even finding out the other half is bisexual, have to be dealt with.

Although you can also just walk away and forget about him, which is really not a possiblity, it never is, when children are involved, even if they are grown up!

I see the main problem is that, he's become a alcoholic and irresponsible, for his actions, due to a poweful drug, called alcohol.

I can only wish you luck!

Although don't let it drag you, into the bottle too! Otherwise you are both doomed to the evils of drink!


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