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Postby Lil' Miss Lolla_lee_loo » Wed, 08 Dec 2004 9:11 pm

Hey All...

Boy, this topic is soooooo interesting, couldn't help or resist to reply! ;)

I was reading Alya's comments... (go to pg 1 lah folks) sad to say, I too share the same cynical view about the men here, whether local or expat. I happen to belong under the category of women who has travelled a fair bit and just looking for nice, decent, sincere, genuine male soul who hopefully is also intellectually stimulating ;) Local lads, they're fine, we share loads of common interests, but somehow, sometimes, chemistry or frequency aren't there, so... dead end. Expat men, it's just solely, fun, fun and JUST fun. Either to get shagged or someone for them to hang around with till they find a new one and just chuck u one side... pop goes the weasel, booo hooooo! (ok, pardon me, so there might be nice ones, which I swear are the rare, exceptional few, (normally would be taken already) the rest... what do ya expect baby, I'm on the expat package! :roll: )

So where does that leave for women like us? Where r all the sincere genuine decent men, (be it local or expat) for god's sake?? So sad huh, this isn't a paradise for ladies... lucky for the guys, they get the booze...

I'm done with looking around... if it comes, sure it's a bonus... if it's zilch, it just means there's something better in store for us ;) Or just perhaps, we just happen to be one of those type of people who r very unique in nature (yes Alya, we truly r!) Therefore, only truly deserve the very special and unique one specially made for us ;) (Dang, wish I've my fairy godmother here ;) )

Just sharing my 2 cents' worth folks...
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Postby Ah Lau » Thu, 09 Dec 2004 4:27 am

Ah Lau has read all your replies and i feel super bey song(ie no shiok, bordering on constipation)

I now too busy in Vietnam, got more than I can handle...so many weemen so leeetle time...hehe

Wait teel I come back lah ...I handle all of you... All I say is dun despair...local guys are fare game...let ah lau teach you a few tricks hehe :lol:

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Postby ah lau die hard fans » Thu, 09 Dec 2004 10:53 am

Ah Lau, I totally agree with you about the kind of expectations that a woman in singapore has for looking for a man, although I am a woman myself......hey ah lau, enjoy yourself in vietnam hor...... :lol:

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Postby Lil' Miss Lolla_lee_loo » Thu, 09 Dec 2004 10:14 pm

Alright lah ah lau... game man :) treats for trix ;)
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Postby Nishtagea » Fri, 10 Dec 2004 9:02 pm

Where're all the interesting women?

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Postby Guest » Wed, 22 Dec 2004 10:53 am

Hey Alya - thanks for voicing out what intelligent women in Singapore feel!

Local men want docile and stupid potential wives. Expats want SPGs - mostly. I have the same feeling when I lived in London - there's more variety and hope for better men overseas. That's prob why Singaporean men are buying Vietnamese, Thai whatever wives of the catalogue! Intelligent Singaporean women - go overseas and find your soulmate. There is someone there who loves your brain as well as your beauty :)


Alya wrote:Interesting men in Singapore? Regardless of them being local or 'expat'/foreign, i have to say... NIL, NADA, NEIN, there are no interesting men in Singapore... and if there are, someone tell where they are so i could meet them too.

If it so happens that there is an interesting man out there, he is usually married or if he is single, he just wants someone 15 - 20 years younger or he just wants to get laid.. hmnn now that i think about it, if he's that sort, it doesnt make him interesting anylonger (not to me anyway)

There is a dearth of single men here, so to all those corporate HR people, can we please suggest that when you send your people out here, can you send the single ones please? It'll be cheaper for you all anyway, you wont have to pay school fees and such.

As for the local men... look i'm not caucasian nor an 'expat' so any locals wanting to jump on my throat, hold back, bec you know this to be true.. this discussion has been held several times on this board.

For those of us who have lived overseas, travelled, who are not the 'typical' Sporean/Msian it is just as difficult for us to find a male partner here as it is for the 'expat' woman. We are bright, witty, charming, we are not the SPGs or out looking for a ticket out of the country. We want to meet decent men to go out with, get to know, have a relationship with, maybe even marry, whats wrong with that?

Local men leave a lot to be desired, they're a dead end. Expat men, if they are single, its fun, fun, fun.. its mostly about getting laid or having several different girls and leading all of them on. Then when one finds out he's been fooling around and she tears up his house, he complains she's a psycho! (an ex colleague of mine, a British banker was sleeping with 3 different women!) Serve him bloody right for lying and fooling around.

Sorry, Niki, i know ive digressed a bit and dont mean to put you off. I dont know what you really are looking for when you say "interesting men". If you have friends, then have them introduce you to guys or ask your embassy about the events it holds. If you are outgoing and like socialising a lot, then you'll do well.

Good luck!

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Postby Lil' Miss Lolla_lee_loo » Wed, 22 Dec 2004 11:37 am

Am sooooooo glad to know someone who shares the same view!! Yup, I suppose there's better luck out there for people like us! Finalleeeee, there's someone who spoke on our behalf!! :D

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Anonymous wrote:Hey Alya - thanks for voicing out what intelligent women in Singapore feel!

Local men want docile and stupid potential wives. Expats want SPGs - mostly. I have the same feeling when I lived in London - there's more variety and hope for better men overseas. That's prob why Singaporean men are buying Vietnamese, Thai whatever wives of the catalogue! Intelligent Singaporean women - go overseas and find your soulmate. There is someone there who loves your brain as well as your beauty :)


Alya wrote:Interesting men in Singapore? Regardless of them being local or 'expat'/foreign, i have to say... NIL, NADA, NEIN, there are no interesting men in Singapore... and if there are, someone tell where they are so i could meet them too.

If it so happens that there is an interesting man out there, he is usually married or if he is single, he just wants someone 15 - 20 years younger or he just wants to get laid.. hmnn now that i think about it, if he's that sort, it doesnt make him interesting anylonger (not to me anyway)

There is a dearth of single men here, so to all those corporate HR people, can we please suggest that when you send your people out here, can you send the single ones please? It'll be cheaper for you all anyway, you wont have to pay school fees and such.

As for the local men... look i'm not caucasian nor an 'expat' so any locals wanting to jump on my throat, hold back, bec you know this to be true.. this discussion has been held several times on this board.

For those of us who have lived overseas, travelled, who are not the 'typical' Sporean/Msian it is just as difficult for us to find a male partner here as it is for the 'expat' woman. We are bright, witty, charming, we are not the SPGs or out looking for a ticket out of the country. We want to meet decent men to go out with, get to know, have a relationship with, maybe even marry, whats wrong with that?

Local men leave a lot to be desired, they're a dead end. Expat men, if they are single, its fun, fun, fun.. its mostly about getting laid or having several different girls and leading all of them on. Then when one finds out he's been fooling around and she tears up his house, he complains she's a psycho! (an ex colleague of mine, a British banker was sleeping with 3 different women!) Serve him bloody right for lying and fooling around.

Sorry, Niki, i know ive digressed a bit and dont mean to put you off. I dont know what you really are looking for when you say "interesting men". If you have friends, then have them introduce you to guys or ask your embassy about the events it holds. If you are outgoing and like socialising a lot, then you'll do well.

Good luck!
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Know the self to be sitting in the chariot, the body to be the chariot, the intellect the charioteer, and the mind the reins...



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Postby Ah Lau » Tue, 04 Jan 2005 5:56 pm

Lil' Miss Lolla_lee_loo wrote:Am sooooooo glad to know someone who shares the same view!! Yup, I suppose there's better luck out there for people like us! Finalleeeee, there's someone who spoke on our behalf!! :D

Beauty can't amuse you, but brainwork -- reading, writing, thinking--can.
~ Helen Gurley Brown ~






Anonymous wrote:Hey Alya - thanks for voicing out what intelligent women in Singapore feel!

Local men want docile and stupid potential wives. Expats want SPGs - mostly. I have the same feeling when I lived in London - there's more variety and hope for better men overseas. That's prob why Singaporean men are buying Vietnamese, Thai whatever wives of the catalogue! Intelligent Singaporean women - go overseas and find your soulmate. There is someone there who loves your brain as well as your beauty :)


Alya wrote:Interesting men in Singapore? Regardless of them being local or 'expat'/foreign, i have to say... NIL, NADA, NEIN, there are no interesting men in Singapore... and if there are, someone tell where they are so i could meet them too.

If it so happens that there is an interesting man out there, he is usually married or if he is single, he just wants someone 15 - 20 years younger or he just wants to get laid.. hmnn now that i think about it, if he's that sort, it doesnt make him interesting anylonger (not to me anyway)

There is a dearth of single men here, so to all those corporate HR people, can we please suggest that when you send your people out here, can you send the single ones please? It'll be cheaper for you all anyway, you wont have to pay school fees and such.

As for the local men... look i'm not caucasian nor an 'expat' so any locals wanting to jump on my throat, hold back, bec you know this to be true.. this discussion has been held several times on this board.

For those of us who have lived overseas, travelled, who are not the 'typical' Sporean/Msian it is just as difficult for us to find a male partner here as it is for the 'expat' woman. We are bright, witty, charming, we are not the SPGs or out looking for a ticket out of the country. We want to meet decent men to go out with, get to know, have a relationship with, maybe even marry, whats wrong with that?

Local men leave a lot to be desired, they're a dead end. Expat men, if they are single, its fun, fun, fun.. its mostly about getting laid or having several different girls and leading all of them on. Then when one finds out he's been fooling around and she tears up his house, he complains she's a psycho! (an ex colleague of mine, a British banker was sleeping with 3 different women!) Serve him bloody right for lying and fooling around.

Sorry, Niki, i know ive digressed a bit and dont mean to put you off. I dont know what you really are looking for when you say "interesting men". If you have friends, then have them introduce you to guys or ask your embassy about the events it holds. If you are outgoing and like socialising a lot, then you'll do well.

Good luck!
:D :D




Aiya Lollee Lolla and all those like you Alya etc


You have to understand local men background. First of all he got mother in background and then father in foreground and then he got his teacher on top of him and then he got his friend who are all like him around him and then lastly he got his gf below him...hehe thats the only position he can think of for his gf. So wat do u expect ....he sure more docile than a mouse mah. And then not to mention gahmen(government) everything he learns is cannot ..... check the rule book first then can and then finally his Ah Mah (Grandma) and Ah Kong (Grandpa)...u see even at that level ah mah come first then ah kong second....must give approval..where he got space his own thinking in his brain anymore!!! And then when the kiddies come they surround him instead of his frens...there's no space even for him to hide wat more think.....
That's why the best undiscovered secret is Ah Beng Ah Seng....they dont care for this kind of thinking...they say wat they think...and do wat they say...where got time for ah mah ah kong lauboo(mother) lau peh(father)
He flash his gold teeth already they all shaking in their pants...nobody dare argue with Ah Beng Seng and Lau...We all in a class of our own
We like a woman we take big stick.......up to u to imagine what this stick is....hehe... and then we flash tooothless smile and then claim wats rightly ours. This is angmoh equivalent of ....king artoo and his knights... called chivvvvas regal.....only thing is angmoh char boh ( ang moh gal) and angmoh bai singapore gals(western helucated singapore gal) all dont understand what we toking.. if they do they will also fall for us.....also we dun wan only....if we wan can sure get them one...... once we stare at them...... they will come...soo u see we are not same as timid singapore guys who have no balls ..... we are king of our jungle.... up to you to discover the real singapore guy.....alot of fun one u know!!!!

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Postby Ah Lau » Thu, 13 Jan 2005 1:08 pm

Haha i look like that! Cute or not!

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Postby Guest » Wed, 16 Feb 2005 6:42 am

Ah Lau wrote:Haha i look like that! Cute or not!


RUBBISH AND UGLY :lol:

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Postby Ah Lau » Wed, 16 Feb 2005 2:57 pm

Anonymous wrote:
Ah Lau wrote:Haha i look like that! Cute or not!


RUBBISH AND UGLY :lol:





Aiyo what a compliment!...kam siah kam siah(thank you thank you)

Actually i m from karang guni business (rag and bone) hehe :!:
I collect all kinds of larbish including you if you wan hehe...only other rubbish i can exchange for money...you i dont think anyone want....give free orso people dont want..that's where the term 'Good liddance to bad larbish' come from...cant get rid fast enough..

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Difference between Ang Moh and Hokkien Fairy Tales

Postby Ah Lau » Wed, 16 Feb 2005 8:13 pm

What's the difference between ang-moh and Hokkien fairy tales?

Ang-moh fairy tales begin with: "Once upon a time..."

Hokkien fairy tales begin with: "Lim Peh ka li kong..."

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Why is it that Eve could not have been Chinese Malay or Ind

Postby Ah Lau » Wed, 16 Feb 2005 8:46 pm

Now Lim Peh kah li kong a story


Why is it that Eve could not have been Chinese?
Because if Satan took the form of a snake and tempted them to eat the forbidden fruit, Eve would have said, "Quick, Adam! Catch the snake also! Snake also can eat, mah!"

Why is it that Eve could not have been Malay?
Because if Satan took the form of a snake and tempted them to eat the forbidden fruit, both Eve would have said to him, "Relac lah! Tomorrow also can eat!"

Why is that Eve could not have been Indian?
Because she would have conned the snake into eating the apple.

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Re: single woman

Postby Christopher Chapman » Mon, 21 Feb 2005 2:14 am

Good Morning Single Woman !

I have to laugh at you single women. Sorry, really I do not mean to laugh. It is so easy for a female to meet a male anywhere in the world. I am a Chief Officer working on Supertankers, we get to Singapore quite regularly. I am single, not too hard to look at, make a reasonable wage, and have no ties or dependants anywhere. I can live anywhere I want literally anywhere in the world. I am looking for a long term relationship with one nice Lady. When I walk around Singapore, I am struck by the fact that Singapore has the most absolutely beautiful Ladies anywhere in the world. If you want to meet a good man, just say hello the next time I am shyly trying to attract your attention. After you say hello, nature will take its course from there.
So - Italian Lady in Singapore, just say hello. You will find good men like me lining up at your door for the chance to romance you !


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