guys who are not into PS usually don't notice stuff like that. after i went back to work, the people who kept making remarks incessantly about how i look "Different" were ALL FEMALE. my own BF who accompanied me also agrees most guys don't really notice such stuff.inlovewifvintage wrote:Hello everyone,
I have been reading this thread for weeks and done my homework on PS. I've seen the before and after pictures featured here and I'm pretty much impressed by Dr. Nara's rhino work.
Plastic surgery is really really tempting me. I would like to get rhinoplasty and maybe alar done. My bridge is medium in height, however I'm considering giving it some height and a more refined and smaller tip. (That's my main concern.)
However I have a problem which is giving me worries and making me think twice before going ahead with surgery. My parents and bf are totally against PS. However I believe that my folks might be cool with it after some persuasion as I'm just making a small change to improve on my appearance and self esteem.
And now to my....
Problem: My boyfriend will totally go bonkers and get insanely pissed off if he found out that I actually flew to Thailand to get PS done. No amount of persuasion can make him change his mind about PS.
Questions:
Question 1: I would like to know the number of days it will take for the bruising and swelling to subside. It doesn't have to subside completely, just a "not so obvious" amount so that my bf wouldn't notice that I had a nose job done when I meet up with him.
I'm so not gonna meet him til the major, obvious swelling/bruising period is over.
Question 2: Do you reckon my appearance will have a drastic or obvious change that will immediately spell out "I've altered my nose"? I'm so afraid that he will notice the change in my looks.
So yeah, these are my questions that I desperately seek answers from u guys. He's just not the kind of guy who would want a "plastic" gf even if it's just a tiny bit of alteration done. So these questions are really haunting me now. I would like to get it done soon once I feel secure that he wouldn't notice that I went under the knife. God knows what will happen if he finds out.
Just need a little reassurance and I will start booking my appointment at Dr Nara's clinic. Thanks a lot for reading this post guys. Looking forward to getting my answers and hopefully a nose job done soon.
Any advice and help is greatly appreciated.
however, i have to say that i feel it's very tiring and stressful to hide something like that from your own boyfriend. plus during the recovery phase you will need a lot of emotional support. and you have to think about what will happen if he finds out? are you willing to sacrifice your relationship to have a better nose?