language- like an adult would tell a child to mind his language, that's what i meant. not the level of ur english. (btw, u haven't ans another forumer abt where u come from) what i meant was the way u wrote- the language was not pleasant, in fact quite offensive at times, since ur first post- egsampam wrote:shal0m wrote:but when ppl provide the info, u doubt that the writer is nara, when ppl give u the number to call, u doubt that the line is operated by nara...
I think the language used is impt, it is not nice to call ppl freak...that's not the way to make a point..at least not for mature beings..pls try to be more gracious & civilised in one's language..there is really no need to get all worked up when ppl disagree with u..sigh...
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Is there a language difficulty here? Do people simply not understand straight forward written english without biasing it or changing it or misunderstanding it?
im suspicious of that 1 poster because thats all they did. sign up and show all that info when NOBODY else knew it nor is it posted anywhere hence why it makes it look suspicious.
show me where I doubted that the line was operated by Nara?????? i never did that.
and I already knew his number and the board certification number too(which first they said he isnt certified then said he is and from all the background noise etc i stated things)
actually i didnt call daybreak freak but much more colorful word but the board automatically changed it.
nothing wrong with people disagreeing etc AND THAT IS EXACTLY MY POINT. Nor is there anything wrong with posting concerns or anything else. TO DATE I havent accused NARA of anything read all my damned posts!!!!! Rather its some members here that have jumped to their own conclusions.
and about durian I have tried it and dont mind it but dont love it either but letting somebody operate on me and eating a fruit/vegetable/food/drink is worlds apart.
If I accuse anybody of something I would back it up with proof. And regarding tone and matureness thats exactly what im asking here too yet only the people here seem to jump up and down (since I know singaporeans are opinionated) and accuse me of things without any proof or misread/misconstrue/misunderstand what I have stated and imagine some imaginary insults to either doctors or themselves and interpreted things wrongly rather than at face value.
To date that only thing I know for sure is:
*His infection rates just in this thread alone seem to be quite a bit high.
*Once I was told by the board he isnt board certified then was told he is. Which is it still dont know.
*Atleast 1 patient had complained that he hadnt used enough anesthetic during liposuction
*I havent read of any MAJOR botches or anything
thats it. Hence why I havent removed him as an option but I do have other things to consider too including time off, travel costs, hotel costs etc etc etc
"who the hell is this guy?'
"Who the freak do you think you are??? "
"Jesus christ!!!!! getting so frustrated."
If this is meant to be a colorful language, i am not sure what kind of picture is being painted.
there is always a better way to express ur opinions w/o sounding crude/rude.
i am not a singaporean (this is an expat forum, isn't it?), but i think we humble ppl here do understand simple english, your royal highness. and to generalise singaporeans as "opionated" isn't fair either.
to be fair to u, u have provided some helpful info too, so for that i thank you, but i hope u can post more constructive info as such in future, instead of arguement. this is not the arena, u don't have to rip ppl apart.
I hope u can take this comment as a grown-up. i will not reply to whatever u post in future (yes, u did not ask for my reply, i am just being busy body, ok?)
all the best for ur search for an ideal PS.
